xpluswearer said:
There are many reasons why doing it for kicks or giggles is not okay. First of all is the exposed bodily fluids soaking your clothes and everything around you A. Bacteria. B. wet clothes that lead to mold and other issues. C. skin issues to boot. Unless you like spending your money on endless laundry and new clothes or furniture economic issues also . D. Odor. E. If you are in public forcing us to be exposed to your unsanitary behavior because of a trill!
F. Costs to businesses for cleaning and replacing things.
Its bad enough for us IC to deal with having no bladder control. Personally my opinion is its not right to just wet your self for fun. What I would not give to be dry all the darn day, medically I cannot take the anesthesia to do corrective surgery if I could I would consider it.
If you see the forum as of late its been a bit unhinged. sure there are 2 other sections that encapsulate this forum I get that . For us IC folks its a slap in the face. sorry ! And Each and every post I have done here is been on point and Yes I have tried to help a few of us here some have taken my advise and its worked others just would rather put their head in the sand. I would say that I have added to the benefit of the ADISC or at least I hope I have.
I can be accepting of many of things , however I do reserve the right to offer my two cents . Take it or leave it .
A few things need to be clarified here.
(1) The vast majority of us are NOT exhibitionists. We don't enjoy peeing our pants in public or wearing diapers where others can see them. It's very much a private activity.
(2) What we spend money on, if anything, is diapers. Because we enjoy the way they feel, for some it's sexual, for others it's simply comforting, and for others it's a littler of both. There isn't anything wrong with that. Is it odd? Sure. But you know what, so is foot fetish and people who like to lick toes. So what? It doesn't hurt anyone.
(3) While many may FANTASIZE about having no bladder control, it is just that, a fantasy. Very few people truly want to become incontinent because they understand what a total pain it is. Sometimes people look for ways to switch their continence on and off like a switch, but the point is, they can be continent when they want to be.
(4) Between high-quality diapers and plastic pants, I've never had to clean any of my furniture. Ever. Or replace my clothing. Or launder it more than usual. You seem to be laboring under a lot of misconceptions about what ABDL is all about.
(5) How do you feel about BDSM relationships? Slavery is certainly no joke, but people like to play at it all the time... but it's just that, play. They can stop anytime. Is that a slap in the face too?
(6) If ABDL really bothers you so much, my suggestion is to stick to the IC forum and not read the rest. Why upset yourself?
(7) I have never had any mold nor bacteria issues, and when my skin becomes irritated I just stop wearing for awhile because it's OPTIONAL for me and I can do that. It's not a problem.
I honestly don't understand what this rant is all about. People have fun in their own ways and there's no need to take offense to it.