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Hey guys, I am making a documentary for broadcast only in the Balkans (not the UK or US). Before you tell me to leave the site or feel as if I'm spamming, please do read and respond if you can help. Please be open-minded as I am.

I am a documentary maker with a background in glamour and fitness modelling. I have many friends who work on webcam and chat to adult babies, and have even met some myself. I have been commissioned to make a series of documentaries and due to my own intrigue, I chose adult babies as one of the topics. This is NOT in an attempt to ridicule anyone or poke fun- it is due to my own intrigue and the curiosity of many others.

What am I looking for?
I am looking for one or two adult babies or baby minders, male or female, to chat openly about the way they live, how much of the time they embrace their baby side and why they do it. Also the perks of being an adult baby or minder.

What will you get in return?
A very good fee (to be negotiated before filming begins), a guarantee this won't be broadcast in the UK or US and a chance to tell your story to genuinely interested people.

Please post below or message me for an initial chat if you think you might be interested. The series is in NO way pornographic and will not damage the reputation of the community.

Thank you
 
You might be in for quite the lesson.

Not all of us here fit into the role of "adult baby" however you define it.

If you want my honest response... I think you are asking the wrong questions.
 
You should also ask at reddit's abdl subreddit!


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What is a very good fee? I have been interviewed for BDSM documentaries in the past. It was fun, I love being in front of the camera.
 
I'm not exactly an "adult baby" at all, although that was the label that got me started. Diapers are really the only babyish thing I like, and I'm far too shy to have my voice/image recorded. But I've been loosely part of the "online scene" for a few decades now, so if I can help answer any questions, or provide any anonymous statements for your documentary, feel free to drop me a message. :smile:

All the documentaries I've seen on this subject seem to completely ignore the fact that, although there are "lifestyle littles" who spend a lot of time regressed and being looked after by a "minder"... This is very much the "extreme" end of the scene. For most ABDLs, this is something private that they happily enjoy relatively occasionally; more a "hobby" than a "lifestyle".

I'm sure the more "extreme" lifestyle ABDLs would make for a more "interesting" documentary, but I think it would be really good if you at least mention the fact that most ABDLs have found a much less intense way of integrating their ABDL interests with their "normal" lives.

The psychology behind ABDL-ism is interesting too and often omitted from documentaries. There aren't a great deal of academic peer-reviewed articles on the subject, but most ABDLs seem (initially) somewhat troubled by their interests, and most have some curiosity as to what "caused" them. There has been much discussion, and a few theories repeatedly pop-up, which (I think) contribute to a partial understanding of some of the things that might predispose people to become ABDL.

Have you seen any other ABDL documentaries before? If not, check them out (I can probably find a few for you), and maybe think about what you can do differently to make your film really stand out from the rest.

Good luck. I hope you're successful (and represent ABDLs in a fair light).

Please feel free to ask us anything, either privately or in new threads. :smile:

MotherFaith said:
What is a very good fee? I have been interviewed for BDSM documentaries in the past. It was fun, I love being in front of the camera.

Gasp! Are you famous?! :biggrin: Which BDSM documentaries have you been in? I'd love to see you on the silver screen! :smile:
 
tiny said:
I'm not exactly an "adult baby" at all, although that was the label that got me started. Diapers are really the only babyish thing I like, and I'm far too shy to have my voice/image recorded. But I've been loosely part of the "online scene" for a few decades now, so if I can help answer any questions, or provide any anonymous statements for your documentary, feel free to drop me a message. :smile:

All the documentaries I've seen on this subject seem to completely ignore the fact that, although there are "lifestyle littles" who spend a lot of time regressed and being looked after by a "minder"... This is very much the "extreme" end of the scene. For most ABDLs, this is something private that they happily enjoy relatively occasionally; more a "hobby" than a "lifestyle".

I'm sure the more "extreme" lifestyle ABDLs would make for a more "interesting" documentary, but I think it would be really good if you at least mention the fact that most ABDLs have found a much less intense way of integrating their ABDL interests with their "normal" lives.

The psychology behind ABDL-ism is interesting too and often omitted from documentaries. There aren't a great deal of academic peer-reviewed articles on the subject, but most ABDLs seem (initially) somewhat troubled by their interests, and most have some curiosity as to what "caused" them. There has been much discussion, and a few theories repeatedly pop-up, which (I think) contribute to a partial understanding of some of the things that might predispose people to become ABDL.

Have you seen any other ABDL documentaries before? If not, check them out (I can probably find a few for you), and maybe think about what you can do differently to make your film really stand out from the rest.

Good luck. I hope you're successful (and represent ABDLs in a fair light).

Please feel free to ask us anything, either privately or in new threads. :smile:



Gasp! Are you famous?! :biggrin: Which BDSM documentaries have you been in? I'd love to see you on the silver screen! :smile:

No not famous sadly. One was a very low key affair where I talked about the London fetish scene and why people enjoy BDSM activities. That was close to ten years ago now if memory serves. Will try to hunt it down for you. And more recently I was involved in a more intense one on one interview where I talk more broadly about the scene and what it is like being a mistress. Yet to be released but last I heard (via email) the whole thing is in post production. I did my bit about a year ago and the director was travelling all over the world to interview players.
 
MotherFaith said:
No not famous sadly. One was a very low key affair where I talked about the London fetish scene and why people enjoy BDSM activities. That was close to ten years ago now if memory serves. Will try to hunt it down for you. And more recently I was involved in a more intense one on one interview where I talk more broadly about the scene and what it is like being a mistress. Yet to be released but last I heard (via email) the whole thing is in post production. I did my bit about a year ago and the director was travelling all over the world to interview players.

Cool -- sounds fascinating! Hang on... ten years ago? I hope your avatar pic is from back then -- you don't look old enough to have been allowed to take part in a BDSM documentary ten years before that pic was taken!

But yeah, I'd love to see it if you can find it!
 
tiny said:
Cool -- sounds fascinating! Hang on... ten years ago? I hope your avatar pic is from back then -- you don't look old enough to have been allowed to take part in a BDSM documentary ten years before that pic was taken!

But yeah, I'd love to see it if you can find it!

Very smooth Mr Tiny. I am probably a lot older than many realise! The wonders of makeup and lighting. I will try to find it but not in contact with anyone involvd anymore but will put some feelers out.
 
I'm always open for chatting, but have no interest in appearing on tv. I've recently helped a writer integrate an incontinent dl as a character in a book too. PM me if you'd like to tap me as a resource. Just maybe not your main star.
 
Hi MotherFaith! Please DM me to discuss fee x
 
It's great to be a part of this forum site.
 
Not to be rude or bursting your bubble, but the people you call "adult babies" are not all grouped into the same category.

I originally thought of myself as an AB because there was no designation of 'little' or a gap in definitions between 'adult baby' and 'little'. Now that I see the AB designation is a more sexually influenced behavior and because of this, I have come to lean more towards the 'little' designation as my group of choice. The designation 'little', by my definition, is a person who wishes to go into 'little' space by regressing in clothing and/or mind to that of their past selves via a physical and mental age target in order to fulfill a desire that is based on healing a traumatic past, curiosity, etc. To add to said definition the practices of a 'little' while in 'little' space NEVER involves any sexual foreplay or related actions. I have both tags because I originally thought of myself as an AB, but now have come to think of myself as a 'little' instead.

How far I take my activities tends to be determined by my budget (which is now completely nonexistent). When I was at the height of my 'little' space 2 years ago, I had: pacifiers, diapers, plush animals and a baby bottle to get as realistic as possible at the time. Although I had and still have further plans to go bigger, such as get clothing and more toys, living with my parents forced me to eventually purge all of the pacifiers I bought and my baby bottle. With all of my diapers now gone, my financial accounts frozen (directed to be used for books for college only), living without my 'little space' and actively fighting the urges to do so over a period of 2 years; I have fallen to the depths of hell and depression. When I started to have feelings of wanting to buy diapers and other accessories again, it was not even a half-year later than when I purged.

Frustrated at my situation, I tried to fight my urges by going through alternative ways of feeding my 'little' space, by re-purposing it for other methods while keeping the end goal of eliminating my traumatic experiences the same. Unfortunately, everything I have tried as a stopgap measure, besides this forum, have either not worked, not been acceptable by my parental overseers or would not have been practical - given my financial situation. I finally, by the second year away from my 'little space', had developed an acute form of depression (characteristic of self-isolation during chemical imbalances during the full moon phase and general aversion to people) and for the first time in 4 years (since junior year in high school) I had started contemplating suicide. This led my parents to become concerned, this summer, and they directed me through my parish's interim rector to find a counselor that would fit my needs. As I have been taking recent sessions with that counselor, I have rediscovered my alignment as a 'little' as opposed to an AB and started to embrace it again - instead of fighting it.

Although, with my current financial situation being a part of the problem, I have gone through a limited nightly 'little' space ritual of hugging my plush fox in my bed while mimicking the sucking of a pacifier (I don't particularly like sucking my thumb) with my lips and mouth while I fall asleep. This partially makes up for the lack of diapers, pacifiers, clothing and bottles that I would need to assist my counselor in the healing process, however my fear is that it won't be enough to stop my urges from taking complete control, since they have been suppressed for so long. My hunger for this desire is similar to Barbossa's desire to eat and drink again after the curse is lifted:
"For too long I have been parched of thirst, but unable to quench it. Too long I have been starving to death, and haven't died." - Captain Barbossa (Pirates of the Caribbean and the Curse of the Black Pearl)

Switching gears:
I am afraid of being shown on public television in this light, even though it is a long way away from my country. I would be embarrassed to be publicly shown in such a fashion. However, I would be willing to make anonymous statements or answer questions you may have about this desire.
 
dannidares said:
Hey guys, I am making a documentary for broadcast only in the Balkans (not the UK or US).

Just because it will not be broadcast here, does not mean that it will not get here. Someone could easily record the documentary then rebroadcast it on the interwebs and participants may be subject to blackmail if viewers recognize them.
 
dannidares said:
Hey guys, I am making a documentary for broadcast only in the Balkans (not the UK or US). Before you tell me to leave the site or feel as if I'm spamming, please do read and respond if you can help. Please be open-minded as I am.

I am a documentary maker with a background in glamour and fitness modelling. I have many friends who work on webcam and chat to adult babies, and have even met some myself. I have been commissioned to make a series of documentaries and due to my own intrigue, I chose adult babies as one of the topics. This is NOT in an attempt to ridicule anyone or poke fun- it is due to my own intrigue and the curiosity of many others.

What am I looking for?
I am looking for one or two adult babies or baby minders, male or female, to chat openly about the way they live, how much of the time they embrace their baby side and why they do it. Also the perks of being an adult baby or minder.

What will you get in return?
A very good fee (to be negotiated before filming begins), a guarantee this won't be broadcast in the UK or US and a chance to tell your story to genuinely interested people.

Please post below or message me for an initial chat if you think you might be interested. The series is in NO way pornographic and will not damage the reputation of the community.

Thank you
Making an ABDL documentary based on interviews with a handful of volunteers is a bit like making a documentary about the cosmos based on a cell phone photo of the night sky--taken while standing in the city. In both cases, you'll be extrapolating wildly from a very few data points that don't really represent what's out there. As with the real universe, the ABDL universe is full of 'dark matter,' stuff that's hard to see unless you really look for it. Doing a good job of that takes effort and a lot of time. You can't just swoop in, observe only those things that present themselves for inspection, and then run off to write your dissertation. Sure, you and your interviewees will get your fifteen minutes of fame, but from an academic standpoint, it's complete crap.

ABDL documentaries have a habit of reflecting badly on the community and creating sensational stereotypes. If your aim is to paint any sort of accurate picture, I'd suggest that for every one person you find who's willing to be seen on TV or have his/her real name used, you ought to have at least 99 more who'll want you to shoot them in silhouette, change their names, and modify their voices. For every one person you find who goes out in public wearing baby clothes, find 99 more who can't imagine doing that, and indulge their baby sides only while at home. In their bedroom. Probably with the blinds drawn. For ever person you find who has a minder or caretaker or somebody else they regularly role-play with, find 99 more who don't have such a person, and may even find the idea awkward or off-putting. For every married or otherwise "attached" person whose partner knows and participates in ABDL, find 99 more whose partner is in the dark about it.

For every person who wants to talk with you about this, find 99 more who would rather not--and then talk them into doing it anyway.

You get the idea.

I guess I'm not totally clear on your aim, but if it's to illustrate ABDL in any meaningful way, then your methodology is critically flawed. Perhaps, before making requests of us, you should quietly observe for a while.
 
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