An introduction to wearing diapers

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Thank you. This is sure to be an excellent resource!!!
 
A very good resource.
 
LittleManAlex said:
A very good resource.
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The title caught my eye and I found these comments to be very nice to read as I am the author of the paper!:eek:

I am glad you found my paper interesting. I wanted to help other people find information that I had difficulty finding when I needed it most.

I have continued to expand the paper and am in the process of turning it into a book on the broader topic of managing bowel or bladder incontinence - to be published on Amazon Kindle. My co-author is a Physician's Assistant in neurology who also is double incontinent and wears 24/7. We looked at the available books on managing incontinence and found them to be superficial, with mostly feel-good advice and lacking the details an incontinent rally needs. Then we realized that none of the authors were themselves incontinent. We felt we could do better - and we have. In Amazon Kindle format we have written about 300 pages. What makes this book different is that we are violating some taboos in order to give the very specific (but not offensive) information that incontinents really need but have so much difficulty finding. Even some physicians have asked for a copy, saying "They don't teach us this in medical school."

In addition to the expected, we even address the following: do diapers expire?, diaper suspenders, dating in diapers, "stealth" diapering," enemas and anal plugs for fecal incontinence, incontinence and sex, diapering with the penis "up" or "down," diaper and menstruation, avoiding cloth diaper "funk," double diapering, should you apologize for a bowel accident?, super-absorbent diapers, diapers and depression, one-handed diapering, digital rectal stimulation, shaving your privates, diaper dependency and how to avoid it, Kegel exercises, changing in public, changing a messy diaper, cloth diaper techniques, adult training pants, the secrets to diaper absorbency ratings, and much more.

Although directed toward incontinents, there is much that would be of interest to the AB/DL community.

--John
 
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That's awesome John! Fine work you are doing! So many of the questions posted on this site are directly and thoroughly addressed in the paper. It has been a great resource for me and I would imagine many others who struggle with incontinence. Do you have a date set for the release of the book? I'd be interested in buying a copy.
 
Just be careful on ICsupport. They are extremely paranoid of ABDLs, and think were all in it for the fetish, sex, and pedophilia. I used to comment on there a lot, but got banned in spite of being incontinent and never bring up abdl topics.

The reason I was told, and no kidding, os that my user name "b brian" was innapropriate. Just another bs reason I've gotten because someone else with a narrow view was easily offended. The real reason, one of their members there had started a diapers supply charity at a different website. I donated to their charity using my usual "baby brian" user name. And guess what, that member was also an admin on ICsupport.
 
incontinace *incontinence
 
Thanks for the encouragement.

We are still writing the book and have yet to work out the cover graphics, etc. We are months away from publication. I do not want to violate any rules by appearing to market a commercial product in this forum so I will check with the moderators when we are ready with regard to an appropriate announcement.

--John
 
JD I cannot wait for your book! Maybe this is silly but I can I get a signed copy from my bud himself?
 
Hotdogg,

Absolutely! Of course, it will have to be a digital signature.:smile:

--John
 
Heh I'll take it. A little personalization is nice ;)
 
Great work! Yes we should explore the depths of what it is to wear these and learn more about incontinence. I just started wearing mine, I am not incontinent yet, but a few times when with the stomach flu or when I fart I can make a mess without control. Though the latter is little, but enough that can cause somewhat of a mess.

Glad you found it.
 
these always can be helpful for finding alternative views.
 
It'd be interesting to note that toddlers are conditioned by caregivers to feel embarrassed about incontinence, in an attempt to motivate them to become continent. Continence is claimed to be adult and good, and incontinence bad. This can be useful for bolstering a person's internal rebellion against this conditioning, rather than blindly accepting it as true and then trying to work within its confines. A way of exposing this is to choose, for science, to wear a diaper and use it. Note all the emotions that come up, the fear of what others will say. "But I'm just trying it to expose this conditioning." Yeah, right, this is wrong, bad, wasteful, etc.! Aha, definitely conditioning. This isn't rational. Most people become continent, and some not, and most become incontinent later in life. As with bandages, menstrual pads, etc. there are products to make incontinence more practical for an active lifestyle. /mini-rant

Great that you're working on this and I hope it moves along!
 
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