Aby
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This is something that's still very much a rough idea in my head. I am 43 and have watched society progress to accepting the rights of others that were once considered "wrong" such as LGTQ and Trans communities. However I don't see anything being done to protect us, its like this is still only seen as a perversion by most groups, including some in the LGTQ yadyada alphabet people (I am bisexual I think the term alphabet people is funny, not hurtful)
I mean with in our own group we tend to have people that may go to far, and we call them cringe worthy, which is what the general public feels about out entire group. We can't open up a store to sell adult baby diapers without communities freaking out and asking what about the children?
We have members of our own group that like to say things like you can't let your diaper show in public as they haven't consented to your choice of expression, which is the same stupid argument that people tried to use against homosexuals kissing or showing affection in public.
And the there are scumbags like me that see things in a much broader picture and will compare the struggles of different groups and get everyone offended for daring to compare the struggle that say someone in the trans world goes through to the struggle of an ABDL person, and people feel that they can say its offensive to a trans person to have their identity struggle compared to some low life creep that get sexual kicks off of wearing diapers or is a pedo for liking other littles in a sexual manner, evan though its very clear I only like adults. Even I say somethings are cringeworthy and sometimes they are, its a subjective opinion as like i said earlier the general public thinks we are all cringe worthy, they dont give a damn if we are just a diaper lover, someone that gets a sexual kick out of it, or someone that is using it as a coping mechanism or someone that simply identifies as a child....
When will there be a famous celebrity that comes out and become a shining role model and is treated as bold and brave and made person of the year? Its never going to happen because we are among the lowest of the scum of the Earth when the general publics opinion comes in.
They did everything they could do shut down the Tykables store, the mayor wouldn't even watch the video that caused trouble as she didn't want to see stuff that she couldn't unsee, and that this had such a huge ick factor, the residents were afraid for their children, the store had a locked door and you couldn't see in through the windows anymore after complaints were made about the huge prop baby crib or building blocks in the windows.
Where does it end? Like I said this is a very rough form of my thoughts and I am still thinking about this. Do I wan th right to go out as a baby, no, but should I feel shame if my diaper is exposed in some way? Should I constantly be tucking my shirts in and forever paranoid that someone might notice? Certainly some modesty is appreciated by the general public, but that's a grey area too. Is it obscene to wear a diaper at say the beach ? It is not a usual thing to see at the beach, and it can be off putting to some, but then again so is things like same sex kisses or men dressed as women or transgender folks.
If our pants rip in public and everyone can see our underwear, should we face a greater shame than someone in regular underwear?
Now for most of us this is not a physical need, but as we grow older some will become incontinent, should we feel shame and be like everyone else that is incontinent, hidden away and never to be seen or smelt?
I know that this will probably upset some people who will read this and jump to the conclusion that I want to make ABDL equal to other groups and that I am soooooooo ignorant and stupid and should have died in the hole I fell in.
I am not saying anything that those people think I am saying, I am thinking openly and honestly curious when the general public become aware of us enough that we will need some legal protections like other people in other marginalized groups. When will there be education about people like us, and how its not a shameful thing, that its not harming anyone or connected to pedo crap.
Anyways that ws my thoughts today, go ahead and cue the folks that get pissed off at open thinking so they can come tell me what a horrible person I am and that I have zero understanding of what REAL suffering is like.
I mean with in our own group we tend to have people that may go to far, and we call them cringe worthy, which is what the general public feels about out entire group. We can't open up a store to sell adult baby diapers without communities freaking out and asking what about the children?
We have members of our own group that like to say things like you can't let your diaper show in public as they haven't consented to your choice of expression, which is the same stupid argument that people tried to use against homosexuals kissing or showing affection in public.
And the there are scumbags like me that see things in a much broader picture and will compare the struggles of different groups and get everyone offended for daring to compare the struggle that say someone in the trans world goes through to the struggle of an ABDL person, and people feel that they can say its offensive to a trans person to have their identity struggle compared to some low life creep that get sexual kicks off of wearing diapers or is a pedo for liking other littles in a sexual manner, evan though its very clear I only like adults. Even I say somethings are cringeworthy and sometimes they are, its a subjective opinion as like i said earlier the general public thinks we are all cringe worthy, they dont give a damn if we are just a diaper lover, someone that gets a sexual kick out of it, or someone that is using it as a coping mechanism or someone that simply identifies as a child....
When will there be a famous celebrity that comes out and become a shining role model and is treated as bold and brave and made person of the year? Its never going to happen because we are among the lowest of the scum of the Earth when the general publics opinion comes in.
They did everything they could do shut down the Tykables store, the mayor wouldn't even watch the video that caused trouble as she didn't want to see stuff that she couldn't unsee, and that this had such a huge ick factor, the residents were afraid for their children, the store had a locked door and you couldn't see in through the windows anymore after complaints were made about the huge prop baby crib or building blocks in the windows.
Where does it end? Like I said this is a very rough form of my thoughts and I am still thinking about this. Do I wan th right to go out as a baby, no, but should I feel shame if my diaper is exposed in some way? Should I constantly be tucking my shirts in and forever paranoid that someone might notice? Certainly some modesty is appreciated by the general public, but that's a grey area too. Is it obscene to wear a diaper at say the beach ? It is not a usual thing to see at the beach, and it can be off putting to some, but then again so is things like same sex kisses or men dressed as women or transgender folks.
If our pants rip in public and everyone can see our underwear, should we face a greater shame than someone in regular underwear?
Now for most of us this is not a physical need, but as we grow older some will become incontinent, should we feel shame and be like everyone else that is incontinent, hidden away and never to be seen or smelt?
I know that this will probably upset some people who will read this and jump to the conclusion that I want to make ABDL equal to other groups and that I am soooooooo ignorant and stupid and should have died in the hole I fell in.
I am not saying anything that those people think I am saying, I am thinking openly and honestly curious when the general public become aware of us enough that we will need some legal protections like other people in other marginalized groups. When will there be education about people like us, and how its not a shameful thing, that its not harming anyone or connected to pedo crap.
Anyways that ws my thoughts today, go ahead and cue the folks that get pissed off at open thinking so they can come tell me what a horrible person I am and that I have zero understanding of what REAL suffering is like.
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