Can my wife change my diaper in a family restroom?

[mistysummers]

Save the sermon for Sunday

Now whos being rude, lol exposed lol

 

[DiaperedDiscreetly]

Who said I didn't really need it? It's not a fetish for everyone. Some of us actually need the diaper part of it.

Like me! Comfort AND protection. A 2-in-1!

 

[DiaperedDiscreetly]

Now whos being rude, lol exposed lol

“lol exposed lol”

Mhm

 

[DiaperedDiscreetly]

Can we ship this to mature topics?

 

[mistysummers]

Can we ship this to mature topics?

Why no one is being mature in here, lol

 

[surprise35]

This is an interesting situation as the kink/fetish pride part of me says "Why not?" but the ethical side of me does see how doing this in a public washroom is asking for attention you may not want. It really is about the difference between medically needing diapers vs wearing them for pleasure or fun. I love to change my diapers in public bathrooms, I like the thrill, knowing others might hear my diapers but I do try and be as discreet as possible too. I don't take up the handicapped stall, that feels very rude to me and I would rather be a bit uncomfortable in a smaller stall then take space away from someone who needs it.
I would probably assume your wife and you were having sex or something like that as opposed to assuming something like an adult diaper change. Not sure how many people are staring at people coming in and out of bathrooms though, a person would have to be pretty bored.

 

[Seabear]

I’ve used the disabled toilet before to change myself only because the normal toilets don’t have bins for my used nappies.

 

[daylight]

I would say no, since you are not disabled and in a wheelchair.

Since I have Cerebral Palsy, I change myself in

I can read/see your need for extra space. So, here is the grey area that I have/see and alluded at. Is a person with IBS, incontinence, or joint/balance issues have the same legitimacy as someone with major physical requirements?

If you have a need then use it. If you don’t have a need, please be quick about it.

I need the space to change as well. Yes, I have struggled to change in a normal stall, it can be accomplish though not without duress. And yes, I have had to wait as well. Usually, it’s only a minute or two. I don’t know why they used the stall, not going to ask that just makes the wait longer.

 

[sbmccue]

This is an interesting situation as the kink/fetish pride part of me says "Why not?" but the ethical side of me does see how doing this in a public washroom is asking for attention you may not want. It really is about the difference between medically needing diapers vs wearing them for pleasure or fun. I love to change my diapers in public bathrooms, I like the thrill, knowing others might hear my diapers but I do try and be as discreet as possible too. I don't take up the handicapped stall, that feels very rude to me and I would rather be a bit uncomfortable in a smaller stall then take space away from someone who needs it.
I would probably assume your wife and you were having sex or something like that as opposed to assuming something like an adult diaper change. Not sure how many people are staring at people coming in and out of bathrooms though, a person would have to be pretty bored.

Family restrooms are separate units; they are typically not part of a larger restroom. Most often, a family restroom is merely a room with a sink, toilet and a bench ... and a locking door. Consequently, no one can be 'staring at people coming in and out' unless they are standing outside the door waiting to get in. There's a big difference between a family restroom and a public washroom. There's no one else in the room to hear anything or see anything, and there's no handicapped stall to occupy.

 

[stevieg]

Up here we use the family or gender neutral bathrooms for me to get changed there are days i change my self but more often. My wife will escort me in and help me change especially if I am messy. we do this at the movies almost always because i am bad and eat a eat bad foods that triggering my IBS-D. My wife said changing tables make life easier on her...

 

[Ashton84]

Family restrooms are separate units; they are typically not part of a larger restroom. Most often, a family restroom is merely a room with a sink, toilet and a bench ... and a locking door. Consequently, no one can be 'staring at people coming in and out' unless they are standing outside the door waiting to get in. There's a big difference between a family restroom and a public washroom. There's no one else in the room to hear anything or see anything, and there's no handicapped stall to occupy.

You are correct on all terms. I’m a civil engineer and architect. Years back I was in the planning and analysis along with many others of a private space for families in a public setting. We came up with the concept of the family restroom. We specially used the word “family” so that companions could use it together with or without children in tow. Let me make it clear that it wasn’t designed for disabled people only. We wanted this space to be a private space to take care of any needs that would be uncomfortable in a typical restroom. We knew that a companion of the opposite sex couldn’t walk into a restroom to help change a diaper so this new restroom would solve this problem. My wife and I have used them for changing and it feels so good being part of their creation.

 

[babylock1]

People people - you are reading all too much fantasy fetish into this.
It is a Family Restroom that has room for the family to do its clean/change up business.
Trying changing diapers or other medical gear in the usual space of the restroom
and you will certainly appreciate the r-o-o-m.

Obviously you need someplace to change and if the Family Restroom is not in use
why not use it ?
Use it the time you need to do your change act and leave.

We make too much a deal about restrooms these day and even more so for the gals
who have limitations waiting in line to use the few facilities while men can zippy do dah !
I don't need to elaborate about this.

THERE ARE NO SIGNS OUTSIDE THE FAMILY RESTROOM other than the standard avatar.
NO restricting designating protocol (you have to be a baby to use this room etc.) !

And diapers not withstanding when you gotta GO you gotta GO why make a mess ?

 

[Frungie]

Do the changing tables support an adult?

 

[Mickeymic]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being changed in the family restroom. My lady and I do it. It actually helps in some because space is limited and someone helping while standing or sitting is easier than alone. Florida has a few adult diaper changing facilities along it's interstates these are great. I just make sure to bring plenty of sani-wipes and air freshener to deodorize and clean before and after.

 

[Mickeymic]

People people - you are reading all too much fantasy fetish into this.
It is a Family Restroom that has room for the family to do its clean/change up business.
Trying changing diapers or other medical gear in the usual space of the restroom
and you will certainly appreciate the r-o-o-m.

Obviously you need someplace to change and if the Family Restroom is not in use
why not use it ?
Use it the time you need to do your change act and leave.

We make too much a deal about restrooms these day and even more so for the gals
who have limitations waiting in line to use the few facilities while men can zippy do dah !
I don't need to elaborate about this.

THERE ARE NO SIGNS OUTSIDE THE FAMILY RESTROOM other than the standard avatar.
NO restricting designating protocol (you have to be a baby to use this room etc.) !

And diapers not withstanding when you gotta GO you gotta GO why make a mess ?

I'd Give Two Thumbs Up But ADISC only lets me use my right hand. and emojis are left handed

 

[babylock1]

Do the changing tables support an adult?

Those that fold out of a wall - baby if you are over 50 pounds - down will come baby cradle and all !
DON'T DO IT !
Haven't been in one where there is a physical FREE STANDING table !
Use of the floor - but how sanitary clean or recently cleaned.
It is not the perfect solution but having the room to work is paramount !

 

[MrGnome]

firstly, awesome avatar! I love David the Gnome!

Now to the issue at hand. I don’t believe it is illegal for your wife to change your diaper in a family restroom regardless of continence or not. The only person that knows your need is you. Not all needs are physical ones. We live in an age where emotional needs are counted. Example: any animal can be a “therapy animal” and most places you cannot challenge that and risk putting yourself in a bad situation as a business owner if you do.

That being said you may get some looks, or even a rude comment and you will need to decide how you deal with such a scenario. In the worst case, you could be accused of possibly using the restroom for sex, but more than likely you’d be asked to leave an establishment long before any type of legal action or law enforcement is taken. Not to mention the evidence speaks for itself. If you are wearing an incontinence product and there is evidence of a used product being removed and disposed of, most people are going to stop right there, blush in embarrassment and move on.

All of that being said, my wife has changed my diaper in a family restroom too many times to count when we’re traveling. We try to be courteous of others, be as quick as possible, and leave the Facility clean and tidy for the next person. No one has ever said a thing. We really haven’t even gotten a dirty look.

frankly, let people think what they may, be polite and courteous to those around you, and you’ll Probably not ever run into an issue short of mild embarrassment.

It was an awesome cartoon too bad they cut it short and banned it lol! Thanks for the advice I'd also be wearing medical non print diaper. So that should look more legit! That's true I have accepted diapers as a mental emotional need. And agree non of their business why I'm wearing. I will admit it will be more nerve racking for social anxious person like myself dealing with rude comments but my wife is pretty dominant and has no problem telling them it's non there buisness or it's a medical need. And yes I would make sure I wouldn't leave any messes.. I hate when other abdls ruin hotel mattresses or leave dirty diapers for the maids. I being a trash bag and bag them and dispose of them in a public trash can. I didn't even leave dirty diapers bagged in the hallway at Teddycon. I did not think it was right that made the maids pick up the dirty diapers bags outside of our rooms. I also disposed mine in nearby trash can. I even heard the maids talking about how nasty it was cleaning up after teddycon!

 

[MrGnome]

I am bladder and bowel incontinent and have major back pain. I use the family restrooms whenever I need to change my diaper while I am away from home. If I had a wife, she would be able to help me due to incontinence would fall under the Americans with disabilities act. Even though I don't need a wheelchair, it doesn't mean I do not have a legitimate disability that may require the assistance of someone else to help me change. If you saw me walking on the street, you would never guess have I have a legitimate disability, but I do. It Is a very badly damaged spine with at last count, I have 9 damaged discs throughout my spine.

Thanks that really answers my question as far the wheelchair part goes!

 

[MrGnome]

I know that the right thing to do here is to move on, but I'm in a pretty bad frame of mind today. I've been an active contributor to this site for many years, and I've endured the one-line posters, the folks who can't put together a single coherent sentence, and even the women desperate to find a way to 'save' their relationship with a diaper-loving SO. Now the value police show up! Maybe it's time for me to leave.

You're entitled to think whatever you like; I don't experience any arousal at all while I'm in diapers or being changed. The definition of a fetish has classically been something that is indispensable for attaining sexual arousal. My infantilism doesn't qualify.

To take your reasoning a bit further, I fly internationally quite a lot. I guess I should stay in my seat and shave there, since the restrooms on aircraft are for people who have a legitimate need for the restroom. Shaving wouldn't qualify.

Wheelman21 has the better of the argument: There's no legal issue and it's no one else's business. I'm happy to tolerate the mild embarrassment in exchange for the small bit of relaxation going out with my nanny provides. I'll leave the smoking areas to the smokers, leave the handicapped spaces to handicapped drivers, but I happen to think that the family restrooms were created for the purpose of changing diapers. The fact that I have no genuine medical need really doesn't enter into it.

I agree and you have right to your opinion!

 

[MrGnome]

Why not park in a handicap spot while you are at it. They can Waite while you use the bathroom designated for families or the handicap stall!

Truck drivers do have a reason to use diapers so they don't have to make more stops. So what if he uses the family restroom? Really who wants to change their diaper in stalls that kids and adults can look at you and hear every crinkle and tape sound. When I was kid I was terrified using public restrooms because of the opening on the top and bottom even without diapers being involved. I also do not like using urinals I feel way too exposed and some perv can stare at my junk.