Turning down offers to socialise so you can wear nappies instead?

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Do you find yourself turning down offers to see friends or socialise because all you want to do is stay at home and wear nappies or AB play?
 
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Ummm... yes haha
I try not to make a habit of it though
 
Yeah, I’ve done it but I’m not proud at all. There are activities more important than diapers. Social activities are temporary and the diapers will still be there at the end of the day.
 
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I just turn down offers to socialize, period. I don't really have any "IRL" (I usually put it in quotations because reality feels stupid, cruel, and fake most of the time) friends that I want to socialize with. There's only one friend, and I still said no the last few times he asked. :confused:
 
I have done this only a handful of times in my life.

To be honest, I don't see turning down the odd social invitation in order to regress and diaper up as a bad thing. Granted, one shouldn't shirk off their adult friends, obligations and responsibilities to be Little or in diapers all of the time, that's not a very proactive way of going about being an AB or a DL, but every once in a while, I don't see the problem :) The last time I did this was just this past weekend, a friend invited me out and I turned them down, not simply because I wanted to regress, but because I hadn't regressed the last few weeks and I had just finished some very stressful final exams/assignments and a work contract... I was literally torn between two ways I could spend my first weekend off in ages, hitting the club with some friends or curling up in bed with my diaper and onesie on and Pooh Bear on the TV... I chose the latter, no regrets 😄 This weekend is still very much up in the air, but if a friend asks me out again, I'll oblige :)

I guess what I am trying to say is, if you turn down an offer some of the time in order to stay at home, diaper up and regress, then no harm no foul, but if it becomes a habit and your social life begins suffering as a result, you may need to adjust some things a bit 😅

It also bears mentioning, but sometimes you don't always have to turn down a social invite in favour of regressing or diapering up, sometimes you can balance things out and manage both ;) I can't tell you how many times I've been out with friends the night before and then later that evening or the very next day, I'm a cuddly, padded baby boy snuggled up underneath the covers ☺
 
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As a DL rather than AB, and being 24/7. the two don't really conflict. I wear a nappy whatever I'm doing, and if that is going out for a beer with frineds or whatever, so much the better.
 
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I always prioritize RL affairs over diapers to help convince myself I'm still sane
 
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I can't edit my post. I should add that it's not because of diapers.... or alternatively, that it's a ton of things, with AB stuff only being one factor of many.
 
Poofybutt said:
I have done this only a handful of times in my life.

To be honest, I don't see turning down the odd social invitation in order to regress and diaper up as a bad thing. Granted, one shouldn't shirk off their adult friends, obligations and responsibilities to be Little or in diapers all of the time, that's not a very proactive way of going about being an AB or a DL, but every once in a while, I don't see the problem :) The last time I did this was just this past weekend, a friend invited me out and I turned them down, not simply because I wanted to regress, but because I hadn't regressed the last few weeks and I had just finished some very stressful final exams/assignments and a work contract... I was literally torn between two ways I could spend my first weekend off in ages, hitting the club with some friends or curling up in bed with my diaper and onesie on and Pooh Bear on the TV... I chose the latter, no regrets 😄 This weekend is still very much up in the air, but if a friend asks me out again, I'll oblige :)

I guess what I am trying to say is, if you turn down an offer some of the time in order to stay at home, diaper up and regress, then no harm no foul, but if it becomes a habit and your social life begins suffering as a result, you may need to adjust some things a bit 😅

It also bears mentioning, but sometimes you don't always have to turn down a social invite in favour of regressing or diapering up, sometimes you can balance things out and manage both ;) I can't tell you how many times I've been out with friends the night before and then later that evening or the very next day, I'm a cuddly, padded baby boy snuggled up underneath the covers ☺
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I think this is reasonable. Sometimes, socializing doesn't sound all that great and it wouldn't matter whether it was diapers or reading a book or whatever. If I were declining something important or something I wanted to do but couldn't because I couldn't push myself to engage, I would be concerned. Taking some time for myself isn't a concern.
 
I don't think I ever have as I like to be with friends. The problem is that at my age, I don't get that many offers. I stay more busy with work than socializing.
 
Nope. If it would be inconvenient to wear, I won't. Otherwise I would wear out.
 
You mean turning down offers to socialize to leave my pants off?
 
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I’m married and have kids so my life is pretty go go go. I can only dream of being able to stay home by myself in a quiet house....diapered or not.
 
I’m an introvert so I tend to avoid socializing anyways lol

But yes there have been times years ago that I straight out avoided human contact so that I could indulge in my diapers

Nowadays I usually just wear my diapers while socializing and kinda force myself to get out and socialize. At the end of the day I hate myself for being a hermit at times, but I also hate socializing 😂
 
I used to. Not because of diapers, but because I just wanted to be alone.

But now I say yes to almost every hang out attempt after being alone for a long time. It feels so good to be invited out somewhere because that person thought of you and likes you enough to want to spend more time with you. Once I thought of it that way, I became a lot more appreciative of little moments like that.

Also who says I can't wear diapers on my outing either?
 
I don’t regress so if I want to go out and I also want to wear a diaper I just do both.
 
I used to avoid socializing when I first got into wearing diapers 24/7, once I found out now hard it was to be noticeably wearing diapers I started going out with the guys for what ever was going on that weekend.
Took me a few years to realize why they allowed me along, they needed me for the money, I don’t hang out with that group anymore.
 
Once or twice. Then again, I don't wear more than once a week so that issue doesn't arise often. If I really want to do both, I go out and just look forward to bedtime for padding up.
 
I used to, but then I decided that my friends are more important than my diapers and started prioritizing people. This decision came after a couple months of depression and upon reflecting on what had changed in my life I realized that I had started isolating myself just to wear diapers.
 
I have hardly no friends in real life because of aspergers syndrome, severe anxiety and being introverted.
Currently only got 2 friends in real life. :(

When I do see them I won't wear on the day.
Or put on baggy tracksuit bottoms if I'm very happily padded.

Diapers DO help lessen my depression and anxiety.
Also have severe IBS/SIBO/GERD and urge inco.

I usually wear skinnies/slim fit jeans out, but on flare ups I wear baggy tracksuit bottoms/joggers out.
 
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