main interests: hanging out with my family, computers and networking, guitar, jogging
"when in rags and when in wealth / a solemn promise, never to give too much of myself / despite the hopeful things i've said / i live my life inside my head" - barenaked ladies, everything had changed
hello! i am a diaper guy looking for others who'd want to chat, and especially locals, just to know you're out there keeping it real :-D i am married to a woman, have a few kids, and am often busy with family and work. i work at night these days so you might catch me on here at odd hours.
i have always had a thing for diapers - especially wet medical-style disposables. some of my favorite days are when i wear diapers wherever i go, change in bathrooms as necessary, and pretend that it's just normal for me. i haven't had a whole day like that in way too long! i also might be wearing a catheter or a homemade stent to temporarily cause myself some real diaper dependence!
i like to think about other guys like me who enjoy diapers, and i'm always listening for crinkles and watching back waistbands for accidental peeks. i would love it if someone noticed mine and asked me about it :-D
i am currently working on losing weight to fit into cuter clothes... and also into goodnites! i call it my 12345 project: i'd really like to weigh 123 pounds on my 45th birthday. it's a bmi of 19.3 for me (5'7") so well within normal guidelines, but i haven't been that light since i was eight. (seriously!) i'll post updated pictures sometimes to show my progress:
2022-06-01 263lbs
2022-07-01 246lbs
2022-08-01 241lbs
2022-09-01 239lbs
2022-10-01 245lbs (oops!)
2022-11-01 250ish (wowza)
lost my focus, starting again!
2023-04-28 267lbs
2023-05-31 254lbs
2023-07-01 243lbs
2023-07-30 237lbs
2023-09-05 240lbs (womp womp)
... and then my scale broke.
feel free to message me here. sorry, no calls, texts, kik, discord, telegram, et cetera for me. i enjoy this website on the low, and my phone is often out of my hands. also i really don't enjoy roleplaying, but i do enjoy regular conversation.
"of course there's pee in my diaper! it's not called a diaer"
when someone is wearing a cast, everyone knows they have a broken bone, and it is not a problem. they might need help with things but it's all right. i wish that people sometimes had broken bladders. they'd just need diapers for a couple of months. it would be polite to tell someone if they seem to be leaky, since sometimes people forget to change often enough.
if i were a single guy with extra money, all y'all would be welcome to stop by to have a cold beer, play video games on a big projector in the movie room, and make yourself comfortable wearing your favorite clothes without any pressure or expectation. and if that includes a wet diaper, it's a bonus for me! i really have a thing for situations when other guys enjoy diapers too.
me: just so i don't surprise you, i should probably tell you that i have to wear diapers to bed.
them: oh, are you a bedwetter?
me: not yet. ;-)
along that line i wrote out an idea in july 2023 that rings my bell: i imagine being on an overnight high-school senior class trip as a bedwetter. for discretion the chaperones assign me to the room with the other male bedwetters, all of whom aren't worried about me knowing about their diapers because i'm in that room so i must assume it's normal of course. i decide to put mine on a bit early and watch tv because that seems like the popular decision. one of them notices that i smell of pee before i even lay down to sleep, but i just say that i had to go, and i would have wet it anyway eventually. and one of them says he understands because he feels the same way - and he's wet too! but the truth is that i peed already because i want to wake up wet... and i'm not actually a bedwetter
"if i were a carpenter i'd hammer on my piglet, i'd collect the seven dollars and i'd buy a big prosthetic forehead and wear it on my real head / everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads / everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads / throw the crib door wide, let the people crawl inside, someone in this town, is tryna burn the playhouse down / they wanna stop the ones who want prosthetic foreheads on their heads / but everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads" - tmbg, they want a rock
looking forward to talking! :-D