Recent content by SparkleAlchemist

Right now I live with 2 other littles and we're all open about stuff. In the past I've had roommates. The ones I was friends with prior to being roommates, I told. If we weren't friends prior I didn't and just kept it private to my room. I have a good local community that hosts events that I...

If she's local, ask to meet up. If long distance, ask to video chat. See if you get along as people first.

I live with 2 other littles. We only put stuff away if we know a vanilla is coming over for something (usually family stopping by). Apparently it has happened where something gets left out and then it just gets blamed on whoever isn't home at the time 😂 nothing has ever been asked about later so...

Probably not here as I don't speak on behalf of the con at all. If I do make posts regarding it it's usually on FetLife. Here I just encourage people to give the con a shot as it's A LOT of fun and personally I've had many great experiences with it. Also if I see some way to give advice or clear...

It's the Chicago AgePlayers Convention. An annual convention that draws in over 1,000 people in our community where we take over a hotel for a weekend and get to be ourselves and do lots of fun things!

I always love seeing how diverse our community is. I've met littles who do construction, littles who can fly planes, littles who can bake the most delicious and adorable cakes, and even one who worked for NASA (he even gave me a NASA sticker). For liking baby stuff, alot of us do really cool...

I didn't like these when announced, filled out the feedback form, still don't like them now. The puppers aren't as cute as they were, the galactic is boring, and as with most of their prints (animooz and waddlers excluded) I feel the Purrfect, potty monsters, and little rawrs need better art...

I don't really care about the gender, but the specific person. I'd like a mommy one day, but in the mean time I'd prefer my "big brother" to a random female. Connection is what makes things better.

Munches are held all over the midwest

They are trustworthy. I've bought from them several times and a few even in person since they have vended at capcon. Owners are nice. Some things seem to have gone down in quality over the years, but still worth the price for niche clothing.

Thankfully the only bouncer I've been in the little who made the frame has an engineering degree so it's trustworthy. Also before he built a frame he used a steel frame built for suspension play. At his new place he was going to have it drilled into the ceiling but when a contractor came and...

As mentioned custom ordering is the way to get one like that. I have a friend who has one and he had a guy in germany make it custom.

I can go pretty long if out of necessity like when I lived with a lot of other people in college it could be over a month. I realize getting to wear pretty much whenever I want now is a privilege. I still don't wear every day because of cost and not always feeling it's worth it. Today marks a...

I cry when I have strong emotions. Fear, anger, happiness, all bring tears. When big these are usually warranted, I'm usually pretty in control. Little me though is a two year old. Also a bratty one sometimes who wants her way. So tantrums are common. Feet will be stomped, tears will be shed...

I couldn't imagine keeping this from a partner that long. It's a big part of my life. I've had partners in the past I told it to around the 3 month mark and it's been fine. Id want to be comfortable expressing anything to my partner, this included.