Being ABDL is a very special part of me, that I do not wish to change or that I think my life would be better/normal without! In fact I think if I wasn't ABDL I'd feel sad and think there was something missing in my life. It has really helped me cope with all the stress/problems I've had in life, and better it be Diapers then drugs or alcohol. As my Aunt told me when she first found out/caught me "everyone has secrets and something they're into. That's what makes us unique. The world would be boring if we were all the same!" So, whether you're into BDSM, have a Foot Fetish, or of course like many others on here, ABDL just be you, and don't be afraid or feel like something is wrong with you. :-)