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    Lie to spouse to wear?

    I know not everyone is in the same boat, but when I told my wife the truth she was mostly pretty okay with it, and it actually strengthened our relationship.
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    Las Vegas abdl community

    I'm in Vegas too, not too active in the forum though
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    A good "alternative explanation" for what's in these diaper boxes...

    T shirts/sweatshirts etc that you are responsible for getting for a team building exercise at work or something along those lines.
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    Have you passed your baby diaper count?

    I have no idea how often I was changed as a baby, but I'm probably 50-75% of the way there with some estimation. I was potty trained at about 30 months, and I estimate that from the time I bought my first bag of depends 24 years ago when I was 16, until now, I've probably spent a total of about...
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    What would be your diaper fantasy ?

    My wife has generally been pretty neutral whenever I've worn a diaper around her, but I'd love it if she encouraged me to go 24/7.
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    I noticed that after I wear a lot, I have to pee a lot sooner than normal when not wearing. How reversible is this?

    Your actual bladder capacity remains the same, but your brain adjusts to not having to hold it, and becomes more sensitive making the bladder feel fuller, sooner and giving you a strong urge to pee. I get the same thing when I wear a lot and theb suddenly stop. I'll have to pee pretty...
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    First diaper that activated your abdl

    I think I was interested in being back in diapers from about the time I was first out of diapers; I don't think there was any specific diaper to attach it to, just any diaper. As I kid I remember it was whatever diaper my friends little siblings used, or what my cousin wore to bed, and as a teen...
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    Do you Prefer Cloth Backed or Plastic Backed Diapers?

    I usually prefer plastic backed. I do enjoy the noise, but I also place a lot of value on their ability to better control odors, and not being as saggy when wet. I do tend to wear cloth backed at home because it's easier to be discreet around my family. Although my wife tolerates me using...
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    Changing times diaper company

    It's a great store, and I second that the owners are super nice. I like buying the sample packs, although they can be pricey because I can try different diapers without a big commitment if they don't fit or I don't like them, plus I feel its a good way to support the business since. I highly...
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    Discretion

    My go-to for at work right now is the Bambino Bianco/Totaldry X-plus. I like how they fit me, they last a good 4-8 hours depending on if I drink a lot of caffeinated beverages, and are pretty discreet under my pants, even when wet. They are plastic backed, but are pretty quiet once they are...
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    Do diapers help you cope?

    I typically wear in order to cope with panic/anxiety attacks. I'm not exactly sure how diapers help me cope, whether it's increased control over my time and environment, something different to direct my attention other than stressors, or just not having to feel like I need to pee all the time...
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    Knowing it's Totally OK

    I'm in a similar place with my wife. She has zero desire to engage in diaper play in the bedroom, but she accepts that I use diapers sometimes. Although she's known for several years, I have never felt like she has judged me and for that I am very grateful.
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    Any ABDL members of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints on here?

    I'm also an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ...my activity here is pretty sporadic on the other hand. I miss the old subgroup that we had here a few years ago. I would like to hop on the discord chat as well.
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    Diapers and kids

    This is an interesting topic. My kids are 10, 8, 8, and 5 and I have worn diapers around them on several occasions and they don't seem to notice anything. I keep my supplies pretty well hidden like most people here and I try and be as discreet as possible when I'm wearing around the house (my...
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    What’s your adult job?

    Physical Therapist
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