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I saw this book review in the NYTimes and thought I'd pass it along, knowing that not everyone views this as a kink or as just a kink. It's a collection and it sounds like some of the selections are better than others. Sounds like it might be helpful for those working on self-acceptance or maybe...

Thanks so much for this thread. I'm usually more DL than AB but all the descriptions got me curious. It just came today and wow do I love it. Feels like I'm diapered from my head to my feet now. Ha ha. It's soft, high quality cotton and the stitching is great. It feels like a quality item. And...

I suspect that many of us wonder about the causal history behind our interest in diapers. It's outside the statical and social norm and contemporary culture is filled with discussions about LGBTQIA+ identity so it's natural to wonder where we fit into the whole spectrum of things. I would wager...

Professor in the humanities.

I shared my DL side with my wife a few years into our marriage. She's a psychotherapist who is very accepting of this side of me, mostly because she recognizes that it isn't the entire story about me. Her acceptance makes self acceptance a lot easier. I wear around her and she is happy to diaper...

I finally bought some ABU SDK diapers and I am loving them, although I think I am between sizes. The mediums feel a tad small, but I'm afraid I would swim in a large. Does anyone have a measurement for the width of a large Stay Dry Kids from tape to tape? I sometimes wish diaper companies...

I shared it with my wife after four years of marriage and six years together. She is a therapist and about the most understanding person I know. She was fine with it, is willing to diaper me, and has offered to buy them for me if purchasing them in a store stressed me out. We call them my magic...

I'm chiming in late. I suffered from encopresis as a child and in kindergarten and first grade I was occasionally put into diapers at the after school daycare center I attended. It was fairly traumatic. Little was done to respect my privacy or to protect me from being bullied by the other kids...

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I'm in my late forties, so I also grew up in the 80's out in the boondocks of the midwest. My first diapers came when I was in Junior high. I rode my bike to a small neighborhood grocery store a good way from my house and bought an orange box of pampers that I carried home in my book bag. It was...

College professor

There was a nice discussion of ABs in the Huffington post yesterday. It's an interview with John-Michael Williams from Tykables. It's one of the few articles I have seen that accurately shows how broad our interests can be. Might be a good resource for someone who wants to know more about the...

I especially liked: "I didn’t think the toilet was a monster or anything like that. Rather, it was an existential dread rooted in the fear of change. I liked my life, and I liked being a kid, and, in a way, using the toilet would be the first major step on my path toward the darkness of...

If you are a fan of Crazy Ex-girlfriend, Rachel Bloom has a fun personal essay in today's New York Times about her late potty training at 4. She even makes a positive reference to AB's...

Thanks for the reply. I wish I could say something that would help your situation but marriage can be a tricky business. I hope you can trust that there are seasons to it and things may come around. I'm guessing that your wife knows that these sorts of desires don't just go away. I am sometimes...