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    time before Urgency appears and uncontrolable release.

    My severe urgency is not regular at all. I can be fine one minute and the next ready to soil my diaper at a moments notice. Sometimes I can last for up to 5 minutes but most of the time not.I've been burned before thinking I had more time only to have a surprise BM when I least expect it. It's...
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    Anyone just sit there in there night diaper

    Sometimes I've soiled my diaper in the early morning hours and admit that I'm just tired to change. I'll go back to sleep knowing I will have a typically large BM after coffee. I hate changing and showering only to have another BM within the hour. Once I'm sure I'm done I'll go in for a change...
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    Cloth diapers

    cloth vs disposable After 20 years I think I can consider myself an expert. It comes down to whatever works best for you personnaly. I do like the convenience of a good disposable (Confi-dry 24/7 with plastic pants) I use Desitin ointment ( zinc oxide) and Nullo. I'm not offensive to those...
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    Accidents at work?

    I will admit to being a diapered bed wetter ( 1 of 3 bedwetters out of 6 kids)into my late teens. In our house (mothther was a nurse uo to her 3rd) it was all very clinical yet loving and comasionate. Yes, I know how lucky I was. There was and is still much love in our house. I thank the good...
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    Accidents at work?

    Accidents, which are always rather large BM's, were never really a problem for me at work. It was my own company and I had a private bathroom in my office. Occasionally I would be out meeting a client and I'd have a really big BM. Never bothered me much. I use a lot of Metamucil so the stool...
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    Getting over public changing embarrassment

    I think I remember being embarrassed in the beginning. But 99 % of my changes were for really bad BM's (loose stool - very uncomfortable) that almost always proved disastrous. I fixed that by taking a bulk producing fiber supplement 4 or 5 times a day ( my doctor recommended psyllium/Metamucil)...
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    Cloth diapers

    I think more people would use cloth if disposables weren't so convenient, especially during the day when having to drag around heavy,wet diapers becomes difficult. There are more and more people using cloth at night. They're effective, comfortable and inexpensive. They do have to be laundered...
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    public accidents that are hard to hide.

    I go to church almost daily. I was raised Catholic so it's just part of who I am as a person. I went to Catholic schools my whole life, including college at De Paul.It's just something I started doing after I retired. (sold my business at 55 and said enough was enough.) There is no connection...
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    public accidents that are hard to hide.

    Typical Sunday morning for me. I started with a kayak run around the lake then a change and into the shower. I hoped my bowels were emtpy enough to attend morning mass without a massive bowel accident. It's a warm morning so I went with Confi-dry 24/7 with a booster, plastic pants and athletic...
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    Second battle with sepsis

    We've been chatting for a while so was aware of your recsent difficulties. it'a tough to get a grip and except your present defecepts. With patience and work you will get better. Between phisotherapymy guess you'll be back in the pool before you realize it. Get a good swim diaper and gor it. And...
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    Flat cloth diapers

    There are so many types of adult cloth diapers available these days. It can be expensive to experiment to find what works best for you but in the end, i think it's well worth it. I have a large assortment of cloth diapers, from prefold,contour and pull-up. I do like the contour with velcro...
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    my BM accidents are getting worse

    Any significant change in bowel habits could be a sign of a more serious condition. I too experience a change in my BM's from time to time. I stopped drinking coffee years ago and with the addition of a bulk producing fiber supplement (I injest 4 to 5 large , double doses of Metamucil a day and...
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    routine / hassal

    Over 20 plus years, You can only imagine how mundane the routine of the care I need. Constant diapers and all that it entails is very consuming.Without going into details, it plainly sucks.(check my profile for motre details) I'm bowel IC . 4 to 5 accisents a day, all very large voids. Just...
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    Getting over public changing embarrassment

    Having had severe bowel IC for 20 plus years I've had to change in public on more than a few occasions. In the beginning I had mostly loose stool. When I had an accident I had to change as a diaper full of loose stool is uncomfortable. Was a change in public embarrassing? Yes. But not as bad as...
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    What kind of incontinence do you have?

    I experience severe bowel urgency after a long ago surgery. In the beginning I had very loose stool and I was miserable.My doctor recommended using a bulk producing fiber supplement to firm thing up. It works very well but there has been there has been an increase in frquency and volume. Still...
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