You are completely right. had gender nullification surgery (so nothing at all except urethral opening) and since it comes out further down its much better wetting a diaper. leaks are much rarer and the weteness distribution is better.
I guess if its a problem depends on your anatomy. Its true that the Betterdry doesnt distribute the wetness as good as other diapers (Molicare was a good example because I think it is really good at this) but for me it is enough because my pee comes far down and not in the front so the wetness...