I hope this doesn't offend you, or bring back too many bad memories. But can I ask you how can a boy become incontinent by being raped? I'm genuinely curious from a biological/physical standpoint, but if this isn't something you don't want to talk about then please disregard my inquiry. Thanks.
Ps. My sympothies to you. I too am incontinent because of the immoral actions of another person (purposful car wreck).