Welcome to the community. I admire your reasons to be here. I am not a AB either. I am kind of a diaper lover but not like many of our members. I love the freedom they give me with bladder incontinence. I remember when they sucked. Now to go, 8 to sometimes 10 or 12hours a day without a change. It's life saving. What is not to love?? Most ABs diapers are great and they pushed med diapers to get better too.