rejden
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Hello all. I have this situation. Diapers are super important for me as I imagine it is for many people here. This made me introduce my then girlfriend to diapers fairly soon - about half year into the relationship. I was always straight forward that I want to wear, that I need it (I am not incontinent, just really feel too distracted when I don't wear for too long - like 3 weeks would be considered a lot) I generally don't wear outside with a rare exception. I mostly only like to sleep in diapers, it makes me feel comfy and I sleep significantly better (even my smart watch thinks so - which by the way - wow I did not expect this but my quality of sleep is just better when I wear). She would be nice about it. Like it's not her thing but she would occasionally wear with me or put me in a diaper. She would pet my nappied butt, which I super love.
The relationship went well and 4.5 years into the relationship we got engaged. We started planning the wedding and I am excited to connect to this woman for the rest of my life. I guess this is a lot of pressure on both of us as well. I kind of take it as a last chance to say no, but I really don't want to break up or anything. But then she dropped the bomb - she wants me to stop wearing diapers. We are getting married in 3 months. She told me last week and I just cannot take it. I am moody, we cannot talk like normal humans. I cannot imagine having a marriage I read in here about when people hide their stash at home and are super-secret about wearing in front of their spouse. That would kill me. I am an open personality, wearing is very emotional for me and I cannot hide/not share this with her.
Can anyone give me any sort of advice? I am unsure what to do really. I love her with all my heart but.. If she told me in the beginning, this would be a deal breaker for me. But now I am in love. I like her family we spent 5.5 years together already - I am 25 so out dating was pretty much all my adulthood. I don't know what to do.
The relationship went well and 4.5 years into the relationship we got engaged. We started planning the wedding and I am excited to connect to this woman for the rest of my life. I guess this is a lot of pressure on both of us as well. I kind of take it as a last chance to say no, but I really don't want to break up or anything. But then she dropped the bomb - she wants me to stop wearing diapers. We are getting married in 3 months. She told me last week and I just cannot take it. I am moody, we cannot talk like normal humans. I cannot imagine having a marriage I read in here about when people hide their stash at home and are super-secret about wearing in front of their spouse. That would kill me. I am an open personality, wearing is very emotional for me and I cannot hide/not share this with her.
Can anyone give me any sort of advice? I am unsure what to do really. I love her with all my heart but.. If she told me in the beginning, this would be a deal breaker for me. But now I am in love. I like her family we spent 5.5 years together already - I am 25 so out dating was pretty much all my adulthood. I don't know what to do.