You who are Trans how do you live your original morphology (not to mention the sex of course)

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I would like to know how you accept your face, your face shape and size, if you planned or made operations to modify them?
 
I'm actively pursuing Sex Reassignment Surgery (vaginoplasty), Facial Feminization Surgery and Breast Augmentation. It can't happen soon enough and the process is soul crushingly slow.
 
I would love to have my face changed a bit, not to mention my body, (In general shape and size of course) Though full on SRS is something I'm not sure about, I would fully love to be able to change the way I look.
 
AddyShadows said:
I would love to have my face changed a bit, not to mention my body, (In general shape and size of course) Though full on SRS is something I'm not sure about, I would fully love to be able to change the way I look.

Personally I can not stand my face, but my body is ok, I obviously have something to remove between the legs, but for the rest it's ok

What I really do not support is my face, I have a face a little mixed that I can not place myself with, of course everyone tells me that I have a beautiful face but I'm not Okay. I do not find my face thin enough, not feminine enough.
 
AbdlBrian said:
I'm actively pursuing Sex Reassignment Surgery (vaginoplasty), Facial Feminization Surgery and Breast Augmentation. It can't happen soon enough and the process is soul crushingly slow.

Yes indeed the time it takes is the worst, especially that we are obviously pressed in this case
 
While there are things that aren’t “perfect” to me, I don’t struggle with “passing” and haven’t gotten FFS or similar surgeries. Frankly, that stuff often comes across to me now as predatory practices preying on body dysmorphia to convince trans folks they need surgery to fit in a very narrow ideal of what a woman looks like (an ideal that most cis women don’t fit into either).

Coming from someone who has been on HRT for 6+ years, my advise to folks is to just be patient and discuss with a mental health specialist the idea that maybe there are other ways to deal with “original morphology” woes than shelling out five-digit sums for FFS.
 
TheHorrorProf said:
While there are things that aren’t “perfect” to me, I don’t struggle with “passing” and haven’t gotten FFS or similar surgeries. Frankly, that stuff often comes across to me now as predatory practices preying on body dysmorphia to convince trans folks they need surgery to fit in a very narrow ideal of what a woman looks like (an ideal that most cis women don’t fit into either).

Coming from someone who has been on HRT for 6+ years, my advise to folks is to just be patient and discuss with a mental health specialist the idea that maybe there are other ways to deal with “original morphology” woes than shelling out five-digit sums for FFS.

you know there are health risks if you continue HRT all the time. but I guess your endocrinologist (or doctor responsible for hormone treatment) has warned you.
 
trysexiea said:
you know there are health risks if you continue HRT all the time. but I guess your endocrinologist (or doctor responsible for hormone treatment) has warned you.

Of course. That’s also why bloodwork exists.
 
I'm just saying that doctors do not recommend doing this since it's at risk of causing meningioma. And the only way to know if there is or not and to do a brain MRI.
 
The most I’ll do to my face is laser hair removal. Other than that I think I’m pretty damn cute
 
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HappyNotHappy said:
I’m not sure who you are responding to exactly but I look at my transition and decision to start HRT like this, I was very close to hanging myself, I was laying on my bed in a pool of tears in 2010, I had two choices, #1 hang myself and say bye bye planet earth or #2 transition and let be be. I knew all the health risk, I knew that I’d probably lose a lot and I did, Friends, family, job, etc but I gained the the one thing that had been missing, Me! Now I do realize I very well may be shortening my life span, I could have some health issues as I age but no matter how long I live from now til I take my last breath I have lived longer than I would have had I hung myself that day in April of 2010.


I was in a similar situation 3 years ago
 
HappyNotHappy said:
I’m not sure who you are responding to exactly but I look at my transition and decision to start HRT like this, I was very close to hanging myself, I was laying on my bed in a pool of tears in 2010, I had two choices, #1 hang myself and say bye bye planet earth or #2 transition and let be be. I knew all the health risk, I knew that I’d probably lose a lot and I did, Friends, family, job, etc but I gained the the one thing that had been missing, Me! Now I do realize I very well may be shortening my life span, I could have some health issues as I age but no matter how long I live from now til I take my last breath I have lived longer than I would have had I hung myself that day in April of 2010.

I have nothing against your decision, I know it's complicated so never I want to blame you for this I just want to avert you, and others for the risks of prolonged use of "androcur".
 
HappyNotHappy said:
I hear what you’re saying but many things people do are risky, I’ve been vegan since 2005, don’t drink, smoke or do drugs and I workout 2 hrs a day 5-6 day a week and my grandparents lived into their 90’s. Is taking an androgen blocker that much more risky than an alchoholic, overweight sedentary smoker who never exercises, eats fast food with a history of cancer and heart disease in their family? There are many factors that play into living a long healthy life, some in our control and some out of our control. I would bet even with HRT I am healthier than most.

there is a good chance indeed :)

I never pretended to be perfect of course (does what I say but not what I do xD)
 
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HappyNotHappy said:
Im Happy you are here with us and I find you inspiring when it comes to being your diapered self ... hugs

My only regret now is that I waited so long to accept myself for who I am
 
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