OhHeyThere
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Hey guys,
So I have been going steady with my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. This surpasses my second longest by 8 months, so this is certainly the most serious relationship I've ever had. I wont go into details but we definitely click, and things are good. She's my Disney movie princess with a Taylor Swift-kinda vibe (and looks ) The occasional arguments do happen, but I feel like we're all the better for it.
But recently, I've found myself checking out other girls, but more specifically just this one. I have never talked to her, as every time I possibly could, she has headphones in. All I know is what she looks like. I know nothing about her, but for some reason I find myself fantasizing about hanging out with her.
I have read this is a normal thing, merely wanting what I don't have, and to throw away a year and a half of commitment to my gf for a complete stranger is definitely not a good thing. I know it's a normal thing for someone to look at others while in a long term relationship, but this my first really long one myself.
I was wondering, those of you who have been in a really long relationship (or 2...or 5), how do you curb these random crushes that pop up? Or do you even have them in the first place?
So I have been going steady with my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. This surpasses my second longest by 8 months, so this is certainly the most serious relationship I've ever had. I wont go into details but we definitely click, and things are good. She's my Disney movie princess with a Taylor Swift-kinda vibe (and looks ) The occasional arguments do happen, but I feel like we're all the better for it.
But recently, I've found myself checking out other girls, but more specifically just this one. I have never talked to her, as every time I possibly could, she has headphones in. All I know is what she looks like. I know nothing about her, but for some reason I find myself fantasizing about hanging out with her.
I have read this is a normal thing, merely wanting what I don't have, and to throw away a year and a half of commitment to my gf for a complete stranger is definitely not a good thing. I know it's a normal thing for someone to look at others while in a long term relationship, but this my first really long one myself.
I was wondering, those of you who have been in a really long relationship (or 2...or 5), how do you curb these random crushes that pop up? Or do you even have them in the first place?