Getting caught

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If you suspect that you have been caught doing infantilism-related tasks, the most important thing to do is avoid panicking. Once you have been able to get over the initial shock of finding that you have probably been caught, ask yourself these questions so that you can start to come up with a plan:

• How were you caught? - Can you make up a plausible excuse or are the diapers obviously yours? (Hidden in a bag of yours, or in a locked box of yours, for example)

• Why were you caught? - Were you caught because of a bad smell? A parent cleaning your room? Someone outright seeing you?

• What type of person are you dealing with? - Most of us know how our parents and friends will react to finding something "unusual" to them, would telling them there and then be appropriate or is it time to make up an elaborate lie?

Preparing for confrontation

When you have considered these questions (and hopefully you've done this fast!), you now need to decide what you are going to say. Remember that your choices and options are wide. Lying may not help all the time. It might make the situation worse, resulting in further trouble and embarrassment for yourself. Whatever you say must be plausible and absolutely be easily backed up. No statement should be able to be contradicted or proven false.

It is said that the best lies include some truth, but it's usually safest to go even further. In cases such as being caught as a *B/DL, honesty is the best plan. Leaving out details is much better than fabricating false ones.

If you were not caught wearing/using a childish article, you're probably going to be believed if you make up some sort of intricate lie. Remember, most parents like to think of their children as completely "normal", despite anything they know of.

If the item is found in a place that you put it that it can ONLY belong to you and an excuse is not available, remember to keep your cool. This is going to be a hard moment for you; you're going to need to decide if you lie or tell the truth. Telling the truth, depending on the person in question, can result in numerous things, both positive and negative. Some parents respect their kids no matter what because they are willing to look beyond the fetish and see an underlying honest and self-confident person. Friends and extended family can look at this and see it as an opportunity to get to know you better in a positive way. Occasionally, a parent will be unable to see past the fact that their child is wearing diapers for emotional or sexual gratification. This is more likely to happen if you come from a family that is very centered on "traditional values." A family member or friend can perceive it as weird or freaky and feel irked because they feel like it's an outstanding issue whenever they are around you. If you decide to tell the truth, think very carefully about how you think your parent, friend, or family member will react.

Lying, on the other hand, could dig your grave even deeper. Make sure to cater your excuse/lie/truth to the person who found you out. Try to have a backup plan for every sentence that could be thrown at you; it's quite possible there may be many.

If you are caught wearing/using a baby article, it's rather easy to say it was a dare from a friend, but remember that that excuse will only work once (or twice, if you're really lucky) per person/family (because people may tell other family members). This excuse will fail if your parents want to speak with the one making the dare. Other options include a plausible medical reason. If you are older than 16 or 17, diapers can be explained with a temporary problem that you did not want to discuss previously. Just be ready to hide your stuff better should the problem of being caught a second time arise.

Confrontation

If you think you want to tell the truth to your family or relatives, refer to the article Telling relatives.