I have never considered where on a masculinity scale I fit, as over my life time, I have vastly and continually changed.
As like near every other child, I was measured against the standard measurement tools of the era and was classified as a slow learner. In and about the age of 7, a huge change occurred as the combination of self-awareness and some unknown measurement of the connectively of my mind occurred. I jumped from slow to advanced and that was also a point in which I began a life long quest for knowledge. But, although the tests showed my growth on their scales continue to climb, I felt as if I was stupid as my thoughts felt disconnected. Some place around 13, another major and life long joy entered as my mind began to find links. Upon completing high-school, I was drafted into the Service of My Country, as I came from a poor household and off to the Vietnam War I went. Here another major change occurred as I tested as well suited for a specialist technical position: 45G30- . Returning home I enter College and found a love for Engineering. Some would measure my Masculinity as high while others would not. Again, I never considered the scale.
Engineering is a joy as the enjoyment of continued learning and the growth of my ability to find links between dissimilar concepts helped my growth within a Germany Corporation's US office. I had found yet another unique trait as I had alway enjoy speaking in small to large groups. To this end my masculinity have formed around the founding beliefs of my family, neighborhood and city in which I lived. Another individual was my 400 level statical professor, who set in place one of my guide towers: Treat others with honestly, and to 'hear others.' This combinations set in place as my mind created links.
Found the love my my life, married and became a father while rapidly growing with the US Office. And, then as a result of a Car Crash, I became 24/7, U-IC. Here is where a stationary scale of masculinity fails as the tradition between riding that stationary scale to a vast change in measured falls apart. I should have, as seen in the video, crashed and those around me scared quickly away.
A quote from one of the Post above "are we worthy" comes to play as the Video defines masculinity from a more recent description and does not really define the wonders of a setting that defines /produces males that are well balanced with a combination of family, faith, and transition. This now unique combination creates Men that care for other's wellbeing and believe strongly in being honest with family, friends and clients. I am a strong believer in this type of masculinity as it is never a stagnate scale.
Had I not allowed myself to continue to transition, after the car crash, except my dear wife's push and stepped with me, out that front door wearing a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants under my street cloths, I would not have gone on to have a truly wonderful life.
Masculinity seems to be hated into days World. I see the problem as the scale used to define masculinity has failed to consider the effects of key guide posts of the make of a Man. As a result, it defines a specific faction and misses a huge ground of Men. Men that stand just out of the spotlight! We are out there Ladies, you just need to alter your list a bit to find us!