What is something you will NEVER do again?

[emberkitten]

It does add up. I spend about $3000 a year.

But as said I need them to deal with every aspect of life. Lol

yea i have accidents when i am in startling situations loud sounds like train horns and small children having tantrums are the worst since i'm not fully incont I flood if I have an accidents so I either need to under hydrate or where a high compacity right now this limits how often i can leave home

 

[AttilaThePun]

yea i have accidents when i am in startling situations loud sounds like train horns and small children having tantrums are the worst since i'm not fully incont I flood if I have an accidents so I either need to under hydrate or where a high compacity right now this limits how often i can leave home

That's really challenging, I'm so sorry!

As for tantrums, how is it that a child having a hissy fit can perfectly reach the pitch and volume that is most grating to the human ear? I'd honestly prefer the train horn!

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

That's really challenging, I'm so sorry!

As for tantrums, how is it that a child having a hissy fit can perfectly reach the pitch and volume that is most grating to the human ear? I'd honestly prefer the train horn!

Oh, they find a way, believe me that. Old age and/or autism makes living with that kind of noise hellish. I was a hands-on grandparent for 13 years...it just crept in over time. I can't handle it anymore.

 

[AttilaThePun]

Oh, they find a way, believe me that. Old age and/or autism makes living with that kind of noise hellish. I was a hands-on grandparent for 13 years...it just crept in over time. I can't handle it anymore.

I definitely have ASD characteristics - and the older I get, the more of them I seem to have/recognize as such.

Then again, maybe I'm just an old curmudgeon who is rapidly reaching MBST (Maximum Bull Shit Tolerance).

 

[winterheart01]

if only i could aford that XD keeping my diapered would be about 5000 usd per year -,-

that's a pretty steep price tag, I have to wear 24/7 since I no longer have any urethral sphincter or bladder neck muscles (only UIC) and I ended up with about $ 2000 / year when wearing high capacity non AB (medical class) diapers.
If I'd switch to extra high capacity abdl diapers that would reach your price tag. So if there is the medical need, I'd suggest keeping the good stuff for private time to save on money and use the medical higher end stuff that's still cheaper for outdoor times to prevent leaks.

Now I use a clamp when home and that saves me a lot of money too.

 

[KyleXY]

Like yourself, I also have deeply rooted trust issues.

I won't venture into details, but suffice it for me to say that I started trusting someone who began building a mutual rapport with me one moment before it all went south the next.

don't get me wrong. i love and trust my parents and all but strangers I can't trust one bit. the bottom line here is there has to be limitations now and then don't you think?

 

[ILuvDiapers]

I definitely have ASD characteristics - and the older I get, the more of them I seem to have/recognize as such.

Then again, maybe I'm just an old curmudgeon who is rapidly reaching MBST (Maximum Bull Shit Tolerance).

What you have is OMS.

 

[AttilaThePun]

What you have is OMS.

Old Man Syndrome? ("You kids get offa my lawn!" - shakes walking cane menacingly)

 

[ILuvDiapers]

Old Man Syndrome? ("You kids get offa my lawn!" - shakes walking cane menacingly)

OMS = One More Superpower!

 

[chamberpot]

Just read this whole thread, I have so so many things that i would never do again if I think back to all the bad things that I have done over 70 years worth of shit. I will have to think on it for awhile I guess. Don't get me wrong I am not a bad person..lol.. just led by temptations at times

 

[ILuvDiapers]

Just read this whole thread, I have so so many things that i would never do again if I think back to all the bad things that I have done over 70 years worth of shit. I will have to think on it for awhile I guess. Don't get me wrong I am not a bad person..lol.. just led by temptations at times

Easily done! Temptations are evil!

 

[Sidewinder]

don't get me wrong. i love and trust my parents and all but strangers I can't trust one bit. the bottom line here is there has to be limitations now and then don't you think?

I never said that I stopped trusting people altogether, but that because of the trust issues I've developed over a period of time, I tend to limit the ammount of trust I have in other people.

 

[SissyABSamantha]

Go alone through an area notorious for mugging and got mugged at knife point losing all my holiday money in one night.

Yeah I know I wasn't exactly street wise at the time. This happened in my late 20's. I was very naive back then.

I had the attitude that nothing would ever happen to me. I certainly wised up after that incident.

Never did that again.

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

I never said that I stopped trusting people altogether, but that because of the trust issues I've developed over a period of time, I tend to limit the amount of trust I have in other people.

Good for you! Learning when, how and how much to trust certain people is certainly valid. Trust is never an all-or-nothing, big-blanket matter.

 

[emberkitten]

that's a pretty steep price tag, I have to wear 24/7 since I no longer have any urethral sphincter or bladder neck muscles (only UIC) and I ended up with about $ 2000 / year when wearing high capacity non AB (medical class) diapers.
If I'd switch to extra high capacity abdl diapers that would reach your price tag. So if there is the medical need, I'd suggest keeping the good stuff for private time to save on money and use the medical higher end stuff that's still cheaper for outdoor times to prevent leaks.

Now I use a clamp when home and that saves me a lot of money too.

wich brands do you sigjust ive had problems with abena 4 and whats a clamp

 

[emberkitten]

That's really challenging, I'm so sorry!

As for tantrums, how is it that a child having a hissy fit can perfectly reach the pitch and volume that is most grating to the human ear? I'd honestly prefer the train horn!

evolution the point is that the parent can zero in on it even if sleeping or with distance

 

[foxkits]

Thanks BobbiSue for pointing all of this out. This needs to be said as ADISC is meant to be a safe place for everyone and there is zero tolerance, zero, period, full stop, for anything related to involving actual children.

Rick, as stated many times here and elsewhere, paraphiliac infantilism (i.e. ABDL, DL and its other forms) has nothing to do about interest in actual children, but rather wanting to be or acting infantile or as a child and things associated with that such as diapers.

ADISC certainly contains opinionated people, but it is meant to be a welcoming site for those who obey the rules. However, some things automatically place you outside of the acceptance of the group. We appreciate your honesty and apology, but again, there is no tolerance at all for discussions involving actual children. This simply isn’t what our community is about. I believe the greater ABDL community goes to great lengths to make this distinction. If we are ever to be more accepted by society in general, this stance, first and foremost, needs to be clearly understood.

I hope that you can understand why this is such a strong stance.

As a father of children myself, my adult cowboy self would be beyond angry if anyone ever tried to obtain “child porn” of my kids. You can steal, rob, or burn my house down and I wouldn’t ever have the outright feelings that this would bring to mind. I originally typed other things after this statement, but to keep in compliance with the rules of ADISC, I deleted them before posting and will just leave it at that.

I know I have been strong in my statements here, but I sincerely do wish you the best Rick. But please try to understand why this is not acceptable here or anywhere.

We are very protective of children.
I for one want them to grow up to enjoy being little and the joy of the world around them. I have seen the results to some and how it destroys there life not acceptable. So many of us did not have the best childhood. But that doesn't mean we don't want that for those that come after us please pray for those children suffering all across the world.

 

[KyleXY]

I never said that I stopped trusting people altogether, but that because of the trust issues I've developed over a period of time, I tend to limit the ammount of trust I have in other people.

well said.

 

[winterheart01]

wich brands do you sigjust ive had problems with abena 4 and whats a clamp

The bard cunningham clamp is a penile incontinence clamp: https://www.vitalitymedical.com/bard-adjustable-cunningham-clamp.html

I have no issues with the cotton feel abena L4 premium actually because I lose very small quantities, and it's so soft compared to other brands but I wear that one only during the day and change every 5h.
For the night I use forsite AM PM , sometimes with a booster.

 

[AttilaThePun]

OMS = One More Superpower!

Wow! I guess now I need to browse capes online!