This is from wearing 24/7 and wetting at the slightest urge.SparkyDog said:
I have found this start to happen, where I have started to loose capacity or dribbling or stress IC after a long diaper session. Idont wear 24/7. Work on redevelopment of ur kegle muscles. Holding ur capacity past the point of sensation of holding, and this can help to redevelopment your capacity.bobbilly said:
bobbilly said:
The brain learns patterns really easily and you essentially trained it to just allow your muscles to let go instead of hold. I almost got to that point previously but luckily I was able to stop it from getting that far. It's not the wearing that gets you, it's the training your brain and body to use them that does. Wearing doesn't do it using them does. But speaking from experience it definitely increases the risk. Your best bet now is practice holding, do strengthening exercises, see your doctor, and hope you didn't weaken your muscles to much.bobbilly said:
Please please talk to your doctorbobbilly said:
Yes, I totally agree and can also confirm the effect from my personal experience. I am still surprised that some people are still so adamant about the impossibility of it. Like, of course it is not caused by solely wearing the diaper, the critical part is getting in the habit of using it as soon as you feel the slightest urge. It's a form of diaper training. And in my experience you don't even have to push it to get into that habit, for me it happens kinda automatically and takes a lot of attention to avoid it. The mechanism is also pretty simple, in the beginning you wet as soon as you feel the urge because it's convenient. Over time (weeks to months), it becomes an automatic response and your brain pays less attention to it due to habituation. So far, it's only psychologically. But over time (months to years), your bladder gets smaller and the sphincter weaker (physiological), which in turn reinforces the habit of voiding frequently. Then you have developed an overactive bladder, or even urge incontinence.bobbilly said:
I totally agree. My bladder capacity isn't the same from wearing 24/7. I have the urge and when I do notice - I have to go, right now! But this is a small gush come out, then my bladder feels irritated until the next small gush, in between I'm dribbling. I've learned to wet and walk, my steps are with small dribbles when I walk, when I'm sitting or laying down I can freely godiapers4life said:
