I was happy to see that article too! One thing that jumped out at me, that was kind of a bummer, was the following sentence:
But a fear of being outed in real life—and the fetishests who reportedly prowl the forum—means that building one-on-one connections there can be difficult.
I wish the author understood that many of us who are bedwetters have fetishes born out of the trauma of that bedwetting. I know for me personally, it was so humiliating as a child that my brain chose to fetishize it as a means of dealing with it. Otherwise I'd have probably un-alived myself.
I do understand that there are creeps here who prey on other's experiences and ruin it for everyone, but I'm not sure you can wholesale dismiss "fetishists" from bedwetters as two different groups. One often leads to the other.