Sexual side and guilt

[sidewinder400]

I think there are other components that make wearing diapers for able-bodied individuals taboo. Potty training is some of the first discipline we encounter as toddlers. I don't know about you, but I had my first real "talking to" and spanking when I pooped my pants after wearing regular underwear. And while wearing diapers isn't something forbidden, I do feel naughty doing something that I wouldn't normally share with the general public.

 

[buridan]

I often feel guilty that I have a sexual aspect to my AB/DL side.

I don't understand why you would feel guilt about this. The environmental impact of wearing diapers is the same whether or not you have sexual feelings about them.

 

[Katie2fingers]

If only I had a "mommy," [a wife] to enjoy the sexual side of being an ABDL Wow, that would completed my life.

 

[Kymi]

I often feel guilty that I have a sexual aspect to my AB/DL side. Spending time here, it seems many of us don't have that aspect to it at all (I kind of wish I were the same). Do you think it's less common to have a sexual side to it than not?

Oh I think more people might get a sexual release from it than say bu if not it doesn't matter. It's a sexual thing for me and I get a very strong need to wear nappies to fill that need. I posted earlier about it and in my user-age. I only pee but while I'm wearing a nappy (and especially when my partner tells me to "be a good girl and get a nappy to put on you" I am very aroused and very shy and vulnerable. I LOVE it. So even if there's only us two, and I'm really sure there's more, you've got one friend, if you want, you can talk to.

 

[Kymi]

I don't understand why you would feel guilt about this. The environmental impact of wearing diapers is the same whether or not you have sexual feelings about them.

I think if someone isn't completely vanilla and isn't aware just how many aren't they can feel guilty - I know I did to begin with. I used to purge though quite a lot of years back. It helps that I have a mummy but I stopped feeling guilty before I met her.

 

[Pamperman]

Luiers en rubberen broekjes zijn erg seksueel opwindend voor mij en dat al sinds ik een jonge tiener was. Seksueel opgewonden en opgewonden raken terwijl mijn luiers worden aangetrokken, en opnieuw wanneer ik gedurende de dag regelmatig in mijn luiers plas, is waar ik het meest naar uitkijk. Mijn enige seksuele ervaringen vanaf het moment dat ik als jonge tiener met mezelf onder mijn luiers speelde totdat ik mijn universitaire opleiding afrondde en mijn carrière begon, bestond allemaal uit het dragen en natmaken van mezelf en daarna masturberen. Sinds ik lang geleden met daten begon, waren mijn beste en plezierigste seksuele ervaringen het dragen van luiers met meisjes die mijn fetisj kenden en accepteerden. Als ik de seksuele ervaringen zou kunnen hebben, zou ik waarschijnlijk geen interesse hebben in luiers. En ik heb geen seksueel schuldgevoel over genieten van seks in luiers en rubberen broekjes.

lk geniet van een leuer aan te hebben en er klaar in te komen lekker nat goed gevoel in pvc broekjes Kom ik ook klaar wind me op en dit al vanaf mijn tienertijd

 

[babylock1]

Translation:
Lyrics said:
Diapers and rubber pants are very sexually arousing to me and have been since I was a young teenager. Getting sexually aroused and aroused while my diapers are being put on, and again when I pee in my diapers regularly throughout the day, is what I look forward to the most. My only sexual experiences from playing with myself under my diapers as a young teen until I finished college and started my career have all consisted of carrying and wetting myself and then masturbating. Since I started dating a long time ago, my best and most pleasurable sexual experiences have been wearing diapers with girls who knew and accepted my fetish. If I could have the sexual experiences, I probably wouldn't be interested in diapers. And I have no sexual guilt about enjoying sex in diapers and rubber pants.

I enjoy wearing a leotard and getting ready in it nice wet good feeling in PVC pants I also cum turns me on and this has been since my teens

 

[DistortedWolf]

I am a mixed bag on this one myself. There are times when wearing a diaper gives me decision feelings and other times when it doesn't. It used to be every time but the more I wore the less I felt those feelings. I don't see any need for you to feel guilt though. Let the guilt go and enjoy what you enjoy.

 

[geka]

I suspect this question is directed primarily at ABs, so I'm not sure of my opinion as a DL is of any relevance here.

I'm in the guild of sexual DLs, but I plead not guilty.
I admit having been ashamed and slightly disgusted when cleaning up in my early years, but I wouldn't call it guilt. Nowadays as an old fart, I've gotten over those petty feelings. Diapers are part of my life for practical uses, comfort and sexual enhancement, and I enjoy them without giving a shit (literally, btw, I only go #1 in diapers).

It was sexual in the early days then in my mid 30,s mid 40, s dropped off to a few times a year,!now I’m my early 60,s wearing most days at night mostly…. Life is good!

 

[siysiy]

I am comming from an Asexual stand point. I understand that alot of my friends that are also Littles find some of ot sexual and that's fine but although I enjoy hugs and being held. It's not that sexual for me

 

[KrankyPants]

I do incorporate sex with my diaper side. I look at diapers like a form of fashion. It is sexual when it's a "seduction" diaper all black or purple and stuff.. Remember the "Seduction" diaper?? I hope you understand me.

 

[Nowididit]

I am a mixed bag on this one myself. There are times when wearing a diaper gives me decision feelings and other times when it doesn't. It used to be every time but the more I wore the less I felt those feelings. I don't see any need for you to feel guilt though. Let the guilt go and enjoy what you enjoy.

Guilt is the reason why so many of us went through the purge cycle.

 

[DLBIG]

No guilt, once you have accepted that this is who you are.

Attraction to diapers is something we didn’t choose, it’s part of our wiring and part we cannot change or get rid of, no matter how hard we try. Dr. Rhoda (You are not broken)

Once you understand that, you start accepting yourself, and guilt will disappear, or should, eventually.

I’ve been attracted to diapers since I was potty trained. That is a long time. I enjoyed diapers going through my puberty and sexual discoveries. Evidently, the diaper, the object, this sexy thick underwear became my own personal fetish object and will certainly be for the rest of my life.

It’s sexual for me, but much more than that; I love diapers, I feel sexy wearing them, and it’s so comfy.

I do live with my ABDL side, I accept who I am, but can’t live with guilt all my life.

That’s the way I see it

 

[Lyric]

Over 80% of respondents to this poll agree that sex is a component to enjoying wearing diapers. Given the number of members we have this seems like a small response, but if it is representative of our members, than I can see no reason why any of us should feel guilty because we derive sexual joy from wearing diapers. Just seems so normal for most of us.

 

[BobaFettish]

I think it can be very sexual and very not, and a lot of places in between. We are complex beings. It doesn't have to be just one thing.

I think it can be a cute & fluffy end of BDSM. I love the Dark Ageplay parties I've been to and done scenes at. Impact scenes can be naughty fun, but Impact overlapping Ageplay hits a different nerve. I love the feeling of a diaper after being flogged, caned, spanked, paddled, etc... Aftercare gets me very Little. When I've had a Big in the past, a "special diaper change" or being diapered right after adult fun. I really like being diapered at the moment when I reeeally don't wanna be diapered.

On the other end, I like having legit authentic Little moments. Diapered, watch Bluey, eat dino nuggies, coloring with my non dominant hand, legit accidents that hit Little nerve. When I have had a Big, being called a good boy, diapie changes where I feel very Little, playful admonishments. I had a Big tell me I was "safe". I've had love professed to me, doing what I do I've had all kinds of compliments, but not even my actual parents told me "you're safe".

Like I said I think it can be very sexual and it can be very innocent, and everywhere in between.

I think what both ends and anywhere in between has in common is it helps quiet the mind. With impact play there's a point just passed "this isn't funny anymore" and either safewording out or getting tapped out, where nothing exist but this moment. Same thing with the more innocent side. I color with my non-dominant hand because I have to concentrate so much, it quiets the mind. Sometimes I can get myself into playing with toys and finding that mindspace.

The only thing that irks me is that some people want to gatekeep and judge people who don't experience this stuff the same way they do.

 

[GatoChihuahua]

I will sometimes feel a desire to touch myself. 95% of the time I don't think about it, and if I am wearing a wet diaper at that time it is merely a coincidence. . Maybe I should mark the calendar each time and graph the results

Efforts to understand and "fix" my asexuality over the years have led to a deep fascination with sex, kinks, fetishes, and especially pornography. I enjoy reading, learning, hearing about it, and even watching it. Still don't want to do it though

From my perspective, I am the freak trying to fit in. Everyone else, with all their fetishes, fantasies and sexual practices are the NORMAL people!

In no way would I ever feel superior for my lack of sexual attraction. It's quite the opposite from that, verily!

I am surprised by the 80/20 split. I would have guessed the sexual bunch more like 99%, but maybe ADISC attracts more asexual folks, or maybe it's because there aren't even yet 120 votes cast so the statistics aren't yet significant.

Either way, have a very padded eve everybody!

 

[CoryCoyote]

I don't generally feel guilty about being a sexual ABDL because it's just something I'm used to by now. It's been a deeply sexual thing for me for about as long as I can remember, and it's not like I can change that. At the same time, because it is such a sexual thing for me, I haven't had much luck exploring the less sexual aspects of ABDL. If I'm in a diaper, I'm going to be getting off in it at some point. That's just how it goes. On some level, I guess, I feel a little bit saddened and frustrated, because there are nonsexual aspects that I'd like to explore and engage in but haven't really had any luck with, but that's a far cry from 'guilt'.

 

[PaddedRita]

Yes its nothing to feel a shame about at all. Its just a normal human feeling male or female !! I'm not a AB but I do need to wear full time for heath needs..
I do also get sexual feeling needs from then time to time .

 

[Mickey]

ABDL is not sexual to me. I don't really care about it, babies don't do that so I don't engage. I've always been asexual, so being a baby is a great fit for me. Though ABDL is technically a "fetish" and it has replaced my sexuality in a sense. Having autism, I am deeply afraid of people touching me, and I have no desire to either. I am simply not interested, and I really enjoy the comfort of role playing as a baby/toddler.

 

[GermanDL]

I often feel guilty that I have a sexual aspect to my AB/DL side. Spending time here, it seems many of us don't have that aspect to it at all (I kind of wish I were the same). Do you think it's less common to have a sexual side to it than not?

Don't feel guilty.
it might be a very strange kink and most people don't understand it,
but its not harmful, its not evil, its not against christ or whatever.
Its just a thing u have and u cant change, its part of you and its nothing to fear or hate.

Just life your life, do ABDL when u feel like it and when its a good time for it and
u be good.

This Kink might not be really appreciated nor accepted, but as long as we do our thing
in private, where we don't disturb other people, it will be tolerated some day