Well, maybe if you tell about yourself here, list your location, maybe you'll meet someone here and from what I have seen, *MOST* people here are several notches higher than much of the "trash" found on most other sites. You're going to have to list a lot of accurate, personal information though....not saying to give you name/number/address, but age, general location, what you are looking for in a partner, what you offer for said partner (no, not talking about sex!). I'm in NE Pa and I've been looking for a suitable partner for over a year now but I'd NEVER look on a fetish site as that limits you so badly that the odds of finding what you want are slim to none. I'd much rather meet someone the way people have been meeting forever. By chance., If the relationship is strong enough, my disabilities and U-IC is not going to be an issue and it is really that simple.
CptKirk