Welcome to ADISC jasonmate02.
I hope things went well for you when you told someone else about being an ABDL, (something I have never had to do, with the sole exception of my wife to be).
The only ABDLs that I have ever (knowingly) seen, are the few images of ADISC members, who have their faces exposed on avatars, etc... I always wonder, 'Why would you do that?' (very brave).
As for me, I am a submissive asexual, feminine male, in my mid 60s living in Newcastle NSW Australia.
Some of my interests are: science, space exploration, astronomy, history, archeology, volcanism, geology and geography.
Wish you all the best of times with future play mates.
Have fun.