PastelPadding
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Hello!
I've had nocturia for most of my life and it has been a continuing contributor to my looking at diapers as a potential solution. I hope this isn't offensive to post here because I don't think nocturia counts as "true incontinence" because I can still make it to the toilet. I just wake up 3-4 times a night needing to pee and I think the lack of sleep is really getting to me. I have dark circles under my eyes and I always feel tired. I keep looking into diapers for overnight protection and end up getting too embarrassed and throwing everything out and just go back to getting up to pee several times a night. I have to take a diuretic for a medical condition so I'm pretty sure I know what the cause is as I have talked to my doctor about how much I am having to pee. It's just a thing I will have to try to deal with.
I'm worried that wearing diapers overnight will just be an expensive thing that doesn't actually help. Like, I'm still going to wake up when I have to pee and I don't know if I actually want to be in a position where I don't wake up if I have to pee because then I'd have night time incontinence for real. I don't know what's worse, though, so I came here to ask if anyone got help from diapers for nocturia and if they are sleeping better and feel better during the day? Sometimes, I feel like I would do anything for better sleep, but I don't know if overnight incontinence is worth it.
If it's not worth it, are there other options?
I'm unpartnered and also worry about how having to wear diapers to bed will ruin my chances, but then again I run my own business so I don't really have time for romance in the foreseeable future anyway.
I dunno... I guess any kind of help or direction here would be very much appreciated.
I've had nocturia for most of my life and it has been a continuing contributor to my looking at diapers as a potential solution. I hope this isn't offensive to post here because I don't think nocturia counts as "true incontinence" because I can still make it to the toilet. I just wake up 3-4 times a night needing to pee and I think the lack of sleep is really getting to me. I have dark circles under my eyes and I always feel tired. I keep looking into diapers for overnight protection and end up getting too embarrassed and throwing everything out and just go back to getting up to pee several times a night. I have to take a diuretic for a medical condition so I'm pretty sure I know what the cause is as I have talked to my doctor about how much I am having to pee. It's just a thing I will have to try to deal with.
I'm worried that wearing diapers overnight will just be an expensive thing that doesn't actually help. Like, I'm still going to wake up when I have to pee and I don't know if I actually want to be in a position where I don't wake up if I have to pee because then I'd have night time incontinence for real. I don't know what's worse, though, so I came here to ask if anyone got help from diapers for nocturia and if they are sleeping better and feel better during the day? Sometimes, I feel like I would do anything for better sleep, but I don't know if overnight incontinence is worth it.
If it's not worth it, are there other options?
I'm unpartnered and also worry about how having to wear diapers to bed will ruin my chances, but then again I run my own business so I don't really have time for romance in the foreseeable future anyway.
I dunno... I guess any kind of help or direction here would be very much appreciated.