Leaving ABDL. AMA.

[FatalGeometry]

Hi. I've made the decision to leave ADISC and anything ABDL related as it has been impacting my personal life far too much for me to continue, similar to how addictions can. I just can't deal with all the secret keeping and my conflicting morals due to my upbringing (Catholic). This is my last thread on ADISC. Feel free to ask anything you like about why I joined, why I'm leaving, how I plan to stay away, etc. No questions are off limits (ADISC rules permitting).

I'll keep the account active for one week to reply to anyone who asks any questions, and if you want to keep in touch with me you can DM with your Discord username and I'll send you a friend request from my non-ABDL account.

 

[CutestPaddedFemboy]

oh... bye then, I guess...

 

[PaddedPonyboy]

how does being Catholic make being ABDL off limits? there are lots of christian ABDLs, there's nothing in any version of the bible that states that wearing diapers or enjoying childish things are a sin or bad. those two things are completely unrelated

 

[FatalGeometry]

oh... bye then, I guess...

If you still wanna chat you can DM me and I'll give you my Discord. And I'm not strictly opposed to a meetup in the future (I know you mentioned that before and I replied to it). Just because I'm not gonna be an ABDL anymore doesn't mean I can't meetup and hang out with people who are.

 

[FatalGeometry]

how does being Catholic make being ABDL off limits? there are lots of christian ABDLs, there's nothing in any version of the bible that states that wearing diapers or enjoying childish things are a sin or bad. those two things are completely unrelated

There's a whole host of things, and they're not from the bible. I grew up attending a Catholic Church, which has its own set of doctrines and dogmas that it forces on its congregation, and they're not explicitly outlined in the bible. Take the concept of Purgatory, a realm of the afterlife between heaven and hell where people go for a certain amount of time depending on their sins, before being sent to heaven. When people die their family must pray for them so that they can go to purgatory, otherwise they go to hell. There is no mention of it in the bible, with only a few apocryphal chapters eluding to anything of the sort, but it's part of Catholic doctrine.

As for what does, it's teachings about the sanctity of children, how a man must provide for his household, how diapers could be seen as a form of idolatry, how masturbation, pornography, and sex outside of marriage are strictly forbidden (and since this began as a sexual thing for me I can never separate the two), and lots more. If the Pope were to be informed about ABDL, he would almost certainly condemn it as a moral evil.
I'm not Catholic anymore, I'm not even religious, but my parents are Anglican and yet my brain struggles to accept the fact that something forbidden by one denomination could be okay in the eyes of another. I just can't do it. Every single time I did anything ABDL related I imagined my grandparents looking down on me and what I was doing (a major Catholic teaching aimed to force confessions and donations) and I just couldn't bear it.

While there are a lot of Christian ABDLs, there are probably not many Catholic ABDLs, and even less (ex-)Evangelical Catholics. I spent a lot of my childhood spreading Catholic doctrine so it really can't ever leave me. It will be part of me forever, but I can try to get rid of this. I also know a couple of Christian ABDLs who have said that they struggle to rationalise it in their head every day, and my history as an evangelical makes this even more difficult. I doubt that there are many devout Christian ABDLs who don't struggle with the morality of it in the eyes of the church.

 

[chamberpot]

lots of luck, quitting ain't easy. I wish you the best.

 

[LittleRascal]

Hi. I've made the decision to leave ADISC and anything ABDL related as it has been impacting my personal life far too much for me to continue, similar to how addictions can. I just can't deal with all the secret keeping and my conflicting morals due to my upbringing (Catholic). This is my last thread on ADISC. Feel free to ask anything you like about why I joined, why I'm leaving, how I plan to stay away, etc. No questions are off limits (ADISC rules permitting).

I'll keep the account active for one week to reply to anyone who asks any questions, and if you want to keep in touch with me you can DM with your Discord username and I'll send you a friend request from my non-ABDL account.

This old chestnut, you'll be back you're entering the purge binge cycle.

 

[LittleAndAlone]

Maybe you can change your skin color and height while you're at it. See you soon.

 

[FatalGeometry]

This old chestnut, you'll be back you're entering the purge binge cycle.

No I won't be! I've found what I believe to be a foolproof strategy for getting rid of this. If you'd like to know more I can tell you about it.

 

[LittleRascal]

No I won't be! I've found what I believe to be a foolproof strategy for getting rid of this. If you'd like to know more I can tell you about it.

You can humour me absolutely

 

[FatalGeometry]

Maybe you can change your skin color and height while you're at it. See you soon.

Not gonna happen! I'm training my willpower to keep me from coming back even if I get the urge to. There are things even more desirable to me than ABDL that can keep me away.

 

[LittleAndAlone]

No I won't be! I've found what I believe to be a foolproof strategy for getting rid of this. If you'd like to know more I can tell you about it.

You better keep that secret and be a billionaire if it works. You'll be the first person in human history to successfully get rid of a kink or fetish.

 

[FatalGeometry]

You can humour me absolutely

I've found something else. Something to commit to fully. Something I want to achieve so much more badly than I've ever wanted to wear or do ABDL things. And if I ever do anything ABDL related again, I will throw obstacles in my way to backtrack me in achieving this goal.

 

[LittleAndAlone]

Not gonna happen! I'm training my willpower to keep me from coming back even if I get the urge to. There are things even more desirable to me than ABDL that can keep me away.

A big problem with that is going to be when you achieve all those other things and become bored and happy and more accepting of yourself having accomplished everything you wanted in life.

 

[FatalGeometry]

You better keep that secret and be a billionaire if it works. You'll be the first person in human history to successfully get rid of a kink or fetish.

Not the first person in history for sure. And "get rid of" is a bit of a misnomer for what I'm doing. The desire will still be there, I'll just aim to control it and never act on it.

 

[LittleRascal]

Let's be realistic you're salty you got removed from discord, your issue isn't that you're ABDL it's your arrogance and attitude, as someone who is extremely philosophical and relatable to Christianity there isn't any sin from this besides. Matthew 7 :: NIV. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?

 

[FatalGeometry]

A big problem with that is going to be when you achieve all those other things and get bored.

It's not something you can achieve and then be done with. It's something you have to spend your entire life maintaining. If there ever comes a point where I'm no longer interested in it or I don't have to maintain it for whatever reason, either I'll be very very old and nearing the end, or I'll have been away from this for so long that I don't even think about coming back.

 

[LittleRascal]

I've found something else. Something to commit to fully. Something I want to achieve so much more badly than I've ever wanted to wear or do ABDL things. And if I ever do anything ABDL related again, I will throw obstacles in my way to backtrack me in achieving this goal.

What a career? A nun? A monk? The funny thing is you will do this thing and whilst you're doing whatever it is the thought of a lovely thick padded nappy will creep into your mind, it will grow stronger and stronger regardless of what you think or try to do to stop it.

So I appreciate the fact you think you've got a hold on the situation (you haven't you're just extremely arrogant) and we'll see you in about 3/6 months

 

[FatalGeometry]

Let's be realistic you're salty you got removed from discord, your issue isn't that you're ABDL it's your arrogance and attitude, as someone who is extremely philosophical and relatable to Christianity there isn't any sin from this besides.

It really isn't, that just gave me the perfect opportunity to do what I've already been wanting to do. Does it help? Yes. Is it the reason I'm going? No. It's because of the massive impacts this has been having on my life. I barely speak to my parents, I'm down to only one friend, and I haven't attended any of my University lectures in several months because of things related to ABDL. I enjoy it in the moment, but it makes me a nervous wreck all the rest of the time. That is why I need to leave.

And if you're that closely involved with Christianity I shouldn't need to tell you that all denominations are very different in their teachings, especially Catholicism. And that each individual church may teach its congregation different ideas and dogmas.

 

[FatalGeometry]

What a career? A nun?

If you really want to know I can DM you. I don't know how advisable it is to mention in a public forum.