- Messages
- 189
- Age
- 30
- Role
- Adult Baby
- Diaper Lover
So as some of you may already know, I told my girlfriend about a month and a half ago. She doesn't understand nor accept me. She thinks it's very weird and that it's a "habit" I keep explaining to her that it is not a habit but she gets mad at me for getting defensive. I bring it up a lot, I probably shouldn't. Before anyone says anything her and I are usually a very happy couple and we both think that we are perfect for each other and meant to be together. She has called me "The One" several times. But now that she knows I'm ABDL she says that it's a turn off and she doesn't like it. She also is feeling that I love diapers and baby stuff more than her, I try to convince her otherwise because frankly I'm truly in love with her....What? An ABDL can't love someone. This girl is literally the woman of my dreams and I don't want to let her go because I will be absolutely devastated.
She has suggested that I tell my mother about being abdl and after about an hour of freaking out and anxiety I finally texted my mother about it, haven't gotten a reply about it yet as she lives in a different state and is probably asleep. My girlfriend says that she loves me with all of her heart and her soul but that this needs to stop, I try to explain to her that I can't just stop like that. If I keep battling it and battling it, It might be possible but It'll take a long time. I usually cave and go right back to diapers. Before anyone says anything I want to avoid breaking up with her at all costs, Because her and I would both be hurt and it might not end very well for either party. I'm deeply in love with her but I'm also an abdl.
My anxiety is starting to act up and it's driving me crazy. My depression will kick in if she breaks up with me and then it's a downward spiral of chaos for me. I have had a few dark thoughts but I'm trying my very best to stay away from that. Doing that is never the answer to anything.
In summary, I just reallly want to stay with my girlfriend and have a normal loving relationship without getting involved into adult baby or diapers. I still would want to engage in my abdl side on my time and still be a loving boyfriend to her the rest of the time. Well my mom knows now so hopefully she can help us resolve some issues. I'm just really worried about losing her everyone. This girl is my everything and I don't care what you say. She makes me incredibly happy and we have been in our relationship for 1 month shy of a year.
She has suggested that I tell my mother about being abdl and after about an hour of freaking out and anxiety I finally texted my mother about it, haven't gotten a reply about it yet as she lives in a different state and is probably asleep. My girlfriend says that she loves me with all of her heart and her soul but that this needs to stop, I try to explain to her that I can't just stop like that. If I keep battling it and battling it, It might be possible but It'll take a long time. I usually cave and go right back to diapers. Before anyone says anything I want to avoid breaking up with her at all costs, Because her and I would both be hurt and it might not end very well for either party. I'm deeply in love with her but I'm also an abdl.
My anxiety is starting to act up and it's driving me crazy. My depression will kick in if she breaks up with me and then it's a downward spiral of chaos for me. I have had a few dark thoughts but I'm trying my very best to stay away from that. Doing that is never the answer to anything.
In summary, I just reallly want to stay with my girlfriend and have a normal loving relationship without getting involved into adult baby or diapers. I still would want to engage in my abdl side on my time and still be a loving boyfriend to her the rest of the time. Well my mom knows now so hopefully she can help us resolve some issues. I'm just really worried about losing her everyone. This girl is my everything and I don't care what you say. She makes me incredibly happy and we have been in our relationship for 1 month shy of a year.