Hello from Cape Town!

[DLMV]

Only discovered this site today ???

I am a normal guy with an expectation of spending time with like-minded people.

I have over the years made some awesome ABDL friends via other sites. People with whom I have visited face to face and had an awesome time.

These 6 individuals vary from age 21 to 60's with some living in Johannesburg were I lived 4 years ago and 2 in Cape Town thus far.

I want to build on that and keep adding to my friendship list, but its seems a hard thing to find on any site. Respect and privacy is of utmost importants which comes from mutual respect.

I also need to be able to have a intellectual conversation even if I am wearing my diapers.

I am mostly DL, but indulge in a little AB. Not much into the role play, but willing to try.

I dont put pressure on anyone to do anything they are not comfortable with. We all have our likes and dislikes. I would appreciate the same in return.

hope to hear from you.

Have fun !!!!!!

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

Well, we're into friend-finding but not date-seeking...at least you're off to a good start on the former. So...tell us more about you, make lots of friends!

 

[DLMV]

Well. I am 41 and have been wearing since the beginning of time... LOL.. about 6 years old.
What else can I say thats not already in the thread post.

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

Welp...howzabout hobbies? Interests? What you do for a career? Fav music/movies/etc.? We're not a dating site but a support community. Ya gots an account now, so make good use of it!

 

[DLMV]

Thanks. Still feeling my way arround.

I am a small business owner with a degree in Chem Eng and Diploma in IT.

I love any type of music as long as I can hear the words, with the exception of rap. I am a Celine Dion fan.

I love action, sci-fi and comedies, but not slapstick commedies.

I will update my profile as soon as I find the button

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

I love any type of music as long as I can hear the words, with the exception of rap.

We're gonna get along juuuuust fiiiiiine!

I love action, sci-fi and comedies...

Gettin' better!

 

[DLMV]

Where are you from?

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

Where are you from?

Boise, Idaho area...America's Spudshack!

 

[DLMV]

Boise, Idaho area

Awesome. I assume lots of American and European citizens on here. Will see how the Capetonians respond.

 

[SAPexpanded]

Awesome. I assume lots of American and European citizens on here. Will see how the Capetonians respond.

Former Capetonian here!

 

[agent]

Hi DLMV, I'm also from CT, but I stay out in the Northern Suburbs

 

[DLMV]

Hi DLMV, I'm also from CT, but I stay out in the Northern Suburbs

Hi there. Great to see more Capetonians here. Difficult to find ABDL willing to meet up. But not impossible. Did have a visit a few weeks ago, but unfortunately the one person is now leaving for PE.

 

[agent]

Yeah, it's an interesting thing @ ABDL and meeting up. ABDL represents a set of very distinct wants/needs that have something in common. DLs find it sexual (generally) whereas many ABs are almost repulsed by it being sexualised. I'm a DL and I am very open to *many* things but even I feel awkward when "pooponnappy" shows up (as nice a guy as I'm sure he is). It's a solitary thing for many people. Within DL there are distinct motivations: for some it's domination/submission, others it's an incontinence fetish, a diaper fetish, etc.

So yes, a very fragmented "market"/community/group.

Anyway, hi haha

 

[agent]

(fragmentation and often solitary - hence people not meeting up, amongst other things)

 

[DLMV]

Yeah, it's an interesting thing @ ABDL and meeting up. ABDL represents a set of very distinct wants/needs that have something in common. DLs find it sexual (generally) whereas many ABs are almost repulsed by it being sexualised. I'm a DL and I am very open to *many* things but even I feel awkward when "pooponnappy" shows up (as nice a guy as I'm sure he is). It's a solitary thing for many people. Within DL there are distinct motivations: for some it's domination/submission, others it's an incontinence fetish, a diaper fetish, etc.

So yes, a very fragmented "market"/community/group.

Anyway, hi haha

I am mostly DL, but have to admit that even though I do get excited from time to time when wearing, I dont have the need to interact sexually. I mostly just want to enjoy wearing openly with someone. The act makes it feel accepting of each other and a bit of thrill. It is nerv wrecking in yhe beginning, but such a relaxing experience once you realise that your safe.
Then again I have been feeling my little boy side a lot in the past few weeks, but I dont do the goo goo ga ga role play stuff. For me being little is just wearing and using AB stuff, but still talking and acting like an adult.
I also respect others boundaries and do not force others to do things they dont like.
I adapt to each situation.

 

[agent]

I don't think there are many ABDL people around globally - so you'd need both high density and/or luck to find others like you (and they'd have to be willing/want to meet up). I'm from Cape Town, and I'm certainly interested in chatting to locals, but I'm reluctant to meet up .

I sent DLMV a message 1 day after he last logged in (Dec 2019).

 

[Little2Roo]

This is one of the things I love about ADISC, being able to talk with ABDLs around the world. Going from when I was a kid, being absolutely certain I was the only kid weird enough to want to wear diapers again; to finding out this is a global phenomenon; what an eye opener. Welcome, DLMV to our global community. You mentioned wearing diapers since you were 6 years old. I’m curious about your story. Was this due to bed wetting, illness, choice? Also, when did you discover that you were not alone? I look forward to hearing your story.

 

[agent]

Hey hitch22

I stay in Milnerton