thegamer408
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- Incontinent
I'm not really certain what my goal is in posting this aside from a bit of a vent, alas, I feel conflicted with being incontinent and ABDL at the same time. It's making me struggle to figure out if I am really having an accident (losing control of my bladder) or if I am just going in my diaper out of laziness. There are times I have held my pee for an extended period of time (such as when I was watching Dune Part 2 a few months ago, I was diapered but I did not need to use it) that make me believe I am solely using my diaper out of laziness. Yet, when I am doing housework and drinking lots of water, I wet myself almost reflexively, and I don't know if I would be able to hold it had I been in underwear. Yet, still there's always that thought in my head that I probably COULD'VE held it had I actually tried harder and tried to go to the bathroom. It makes me feel very ashamed, primarily because to me diapers are still a "fetish object", as I've been into diapers almost as long as I can remember (since age 7 (possibly even earlier), I am 32 now). Not only that, but I still live with my parents (I'm autistic and unable to live independently at this time), and who've been aware of me being an ABDL going all the way back to when I was young. While they are somewhat tolerant of it, they make constant comments about me needing to get off the diapers. My mother is especially critical of it, she brings it up in nearly every conversation I have with her. Needless to say, this is a bit of a problem because I am having these issues. I have told my parents about it, and they told me to see our GP (which I did, and I'm now on a waitlist to see a urologist). My mom's tone of voice sounded like she thought I was making up an excuse, but I'm not. It just hurts to be honest. On one hand, when I was young I really wanted to actually need diapers, but now that I am in this situation I don't know. It just makes me feel bad. I suppose there's a reason why they say "be careful what you wish for!" I just hate feeling ashamed about something I cannot really control. And when there are moments of success, it feels like that invalidates everything I have previously experienced.
Anyway, I'm not really sure what to do about this. Current waitlist for a urologist in my area is close to a year, so I will not have a definitive answer until then anyway. I would just appreciate if my parents would be a bit more understanding, but knowing my early history with diapers I can definitely believe why they might be suspicious. If anyone else has experienced anything similar to this (or has other advice to share) I would greatly appreciate it.
Anyway, I'm not really sure what to do about this. Current waitlist for a urologist in my area is close to a year, so I will not have a definitive answer until then anyway. I would just appreciate if my parents would be a bit more understanding, but knowing my early history with diapers I can definitely believe why they might be suspicious. If anyone else has experienced anything similar to this (or has other advice to share) I would greatly appreciate it.