"We stand on the shoulders of giants..." It has been fascinating reading the many differing posts about DPF. I found the comments about the site being "creepy" a bit humorous. I seem to recall every website back then in the early days of the internet was 'creepy' in some way or another. While there were bulletin board sites that tended to be the social networking of the day, sites like Tommy's were early attempts at being social, educational, and commercial. And keep in mind, so many of those old transient sites were hosted on somebodies big-box computer in their basement, not on the slick servers of today. (OK, I'll show my age now...) I recall standing in a magazine and news shop in West Hollywood in the 1980's and coming across a print copy of the original DPF (then, Diaper Pail Fraternity) newsletter. I held it in my hand and I trembled a bit, looking around thinking every eye in the store was on me. My nerves forced me to put it back and to this day, I am sorry that I did because it was a part of this communities history. I never met Tommy. I heard that in the end, as he was dying, his lawyers actually took over the web-site as it was a source of income and helped pay his medical bills. Without Tommy's direction, the site ultimately failed. Tommy gave this community a significant start. His efforts paved the way for things like aby.com, rupadded.com, this site, and a whole commerce community like babypants.com and bambinos. Maybe he was a bit crazy, maybe a bit odd (I suspect most of us here are in some way) but that crazy one had the courage to create something that we are still talking about today.