Northshore supreme is perfect for both ,the key to wearing in public is repetition ,if you always have a diaper on people lose there "frame of reference" it called change blindness ,if it doesnt concern a persons business they can miss something staring them in the face ,your crotch and shape of your ass isnt important to most people go with pants one size larger ,simple adaption's go a long way to covering a multiple of sins ,i am always diapered my friends know i am IC drop by and want to go out and i 'll be like great lets go "dont you need to put a diaper on " why do i need two ! Dont fiddle around with trying to find the mythical discrete diaper its your actions, confidence, and wardrobe that can conceal you or out you ,I recently had to go 27 hours in a double boosted Supreme I changed out of an "abundance of caution" that diaper could have lasted another 3 or 4 hours when I took it off , so get a decent diaper stay with it get used to it know its limits and yours , but until you lose the "OMG i am doing something naughty" and accept yourself, switching around diapers is a fools game .
Playing with different diapers and changing your routine will screw you up , leaving a diaper somewhere were someone can find , wetting yourself in public that exceeds your diapers capacity stuff like that, develope a routine , a daily procedure , the same thing an IC person has to adapt to ,and work into there repeitoire .
Then after you have your confidence, routine ,wardrobe ,then in private you can start auditioning diapers ,find there limits and then add them into your public persona ( I test them for fun , and if i am not doing something that diaper whoops will screw up ,i test drive every diaper for an entire day ,yes I have had some spectacular failures ,but it's not a big "there going to burn me at the stake" for a diaper leak big or small if someone who is with me or knows me ,will tell me and I'll go take care of it ,although it got to be huge to show because even with disposables I still wear rubber pants over top ,if it gets past the diaper and the rubber pants I am not doing my part of trying to stay aware of how saturated my diaper is ,because obviously if my body gave me signals like it should ,i wouldn't need and be dependent on diapers necessarily, the balancing point for me is having fun testing them and deciding how I really feel about a certain one ,versus day in day out monenteny of of hygiene and endless array of diaper changing,catheterising to get thru another day.
I hope I helped you in someway find the center of wanting /needing diapers ,that I believe is confidence in your self and your chosen diaper . Its a winning combination , i freely admit I used to wear Abena until it started to change and be unreliable for my needs ,with Abena it doesnt take much for the front of the diaper to become super saturated guys in wheelchairs are brutal to diapers , Northshore has not failed me yet ,and when you diaper abuse for 27 hours it shouldnt be happy to go further ,i could have used the second chance tapes to refeasten it but ,i already had a dry one before i worried about rolling it up and disposing of it.
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