Are there any abdls out there that know others?

[TabulaRasa2017]

Hi everyone,

Lot's of good advice already. And this will sound like a broken record to some, but really, for now at least you have to go on FetLife and find friends and events. I say this as someone who previously had no desire to go on Fet and thought it was fairly terrifying. But there are good people on there -- in fact, some of the people on ADISC are also on Fet! I happen to be one of them ... and my profile name is the same as is here.

I know not everyone has the ability to drive places, but if you can drive or take a train, etc., go where the munches/get-togethers are. If I stayed within 50 miles of where I live, I would likely still only know other ABDLs from the internet and not in real life. The first event I went to was in Connecticut and I live in New Jersey, so that is not the closest. But, by getting out and going to something, I ended up meeting people there in real life, some of which lived closer to me and whom I do get to see somewhat regularly. And I was introduced to people and events that happen closer to where I live.

Obviously, with the state of the world now, it's not possible at the moment to travel and mingle (and you shouldn't right now!). But once you can do that again, and if you can travel, be open to traveling a little farther afield from where you live. You might be surprised.

You should always be cautious, careful, sane, and safe, but don't let fear keep you from being you.

Be well,

Tab

 

[LittlePrince]

I have met loads of other abdl in my life. Am friends with a few and have even been on holiday with a couple abdl friends.

Awh, I'd love to go on holiday with ABDL friends!
Where'd you guys go?

I'm picturing all your luggage going through the x-ray with bottles and pacifiers and spare diapers showing up on the screen

 

[Poopygamer]

I haven't met any in person, at least to my knowledge as of yet. I would certainly love to try and attend a munchin'. I made a fetlife account a while back with that intention in mind, but haven't really ventured into the website much to be honest. I honestly would like an ABDL friend or two.

 

[Sheepies]

Yeah. Met most of them through FetLife and munches.

Lived with an ABDL for a while, but he ended up not being a very nice person. Be careful what you wish for.

My best friend is partially ABDL, we used to hang out pretty often. Less so these days but maybe once every week or 2. Before the quarantine we'd go to parks a lot for Pokemon hunting and the playground.

 

[Sheepies]

My older brother is a DL. We have mature conversations about it, but we don't participate in ABDL activities together. It is somewhat of a sexual thing for both of us, so it would be a bit weird.

Wow how'd you two find each other out?

 

[KKC1977]

I'm an admin for a fet group in Reno, NV. We struggle to have consistent munches but I have met some cool people. The core usually is the same but people come and go. We did have a cool new year's/birthday party couple months ago. Had a hotel party that was a smash. Getting consistent is difficult,not a major city and many are shy for meet ups. When this quarantine ends if anyone finds themselves in the area feel free to reach out. I try to be good people

I used to live in Reno/sparks Nevada for 20 years.

 

[LittlePrince]

Wow how'd you two find each other out?

Yeah I'd love to know too. Sure there's a great story behind it!

 

[Frank9127]

I'm an admin for a fet group in Reno, NV. We struggle to have consistent munches but I have met some cool people. The core usually is the same but people come and go. We did have a cool new year's/birthday party couple months ago. Had a hotel party that was a smash. Getting consistent is difficult,not a major city and many are shy for meet ups. When this quarantine ends if anyone finds themselves in the area feel free to reach out. I try to be good people

I lived there years ago and remember Wes he is 100 % baby

 

[BigBlueBear]

Wow how'd you two find each other out?

It’s a long story, but I’ll try to make it as brief as possible.

A little backstory: Both my brother and I participated in the same childhood event that triggered my fascination with diapers. When I was five-ish (he was around seven), my brother and a friend of ours dared me to steal a diaper from my baby brother's room and wear it. I completed the dare; they decided to join me by putting one on themselves. We ended up wearing and wetting diapers for the rest of the afternoon.

We eventually got caught by my mom when we tried to discard our used diapers. We couldn't risk getting caught again, so we never attempted to do another diaper-wearing hangout. We went on living our lives like normal children and we never expressed any desire to wear (at least, not to each other).

Sixteen years later, we were having a casual conversation about fetishes (Why? I have no idea!). We were initially talking about BDSM, but at some point I admitted to being part of "some other" fetish community. He admitted the same.

Interesting...

I've always wondered if my brother had been affected the same way I was by that childhood event. Up until now, I had always dismissed the idea as wishful thinking.

I hesitantly asked him if there was any chance his fetish involved something we did when we were young. He said yes, so I followed with:

“Does your fetish have a four-letter abbreviation?”

“Yeah”

“Does it start with an A?”

“Yes”

“B?”

“Yep”

“D… L?”

“That’s it!”



It was such a surreal moment.

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

I've been to campouts and those were good, but life circumstances prevent that now. For the rest...it's been a very sticky wicket and I'd prefer to be alone in this.

 

[DiscreetDL]

My girlfriend is a DL after our 5th date she brought me back to her place and said she needed to show me something and to keep an open mind she came out in a wet Cushies diaper and said she liked wearing them and that she was wearing them on our dates hoping I would notice, I decided to keep her in suspense and said I don't know about this but made sure to tell her that I wasn't going to tell anybody and I might come around to it. After the next date we went back to my place and she was still trying to get me to come around to the point where she asked if I was ok changing her, I said yes because I get to see you naked she laid on my bed and I told her to close her eyes and don't peek I then got one of my Dino Elites from my closet and put it together with her spare Cushie and put them one her with the Cushie on the outside she remarked on how bulky it was now so I told her to look under her Cushie and she saw my diaper and I told her I liked wearing them too she then asked if I was wearing one right now I said no then she pushed me on to the bed, took off my pants then diapered me then things got "steamy" after that. The next morning I woke up next to her with my diaper still on but a little bit wet in the front and we were only wearing our diapers.

 

[BabyHailey1977]

I wish. I would love to meet some friends.

 

[DiscreetDL]

I wish. I would love to meet some friends.

I met her at work we both work at the same casino but in different spots so we would talk with each other at the employee lockers and that's how that started

 

[siysiy]

Are there any abdls that know others? I mean physically. You have playdates and stuff like that? I'm asking cause if I've ever so much as seen another abdl, it wasn't known.

yes I have lots of friends that I have meet through this site and through going on meet up (age play events.)

If you wont to have play dates or meet with a big/caregiver the best way is to put your self out there and get your self know.

as long as you are careful and be clear what you want out of any relationship and be open to hearing what the other person is looking for, then you will have fun.

hugs

 

[OfficialPastelPoppet]

Not physically. Have a few people on FB that ive met online

 

[RunButDontHide]

I know of a lot of them near me willing to meet, I'm just not down to do that... Besides, seeing that this is sexual for me it'd be a little strange...

 

[KittyMerriweather]

I've met a few IRL over my 21 years online. None have remained in my life though. It would be a dream come true to find a keeper.

 

[WeakEndPartyPerson]

Yes but not well: I have a light acquaintance ship with someone who seemed very into this world as a end-of-single-digits (well I couldn't say pre-teen, not the case) and then completely grew out of it like it was an emo phase.
Also the only adult nursery runner I've ever been to is in this 'world' because her partner is ABDL.

 

[DisneyDaddy99]

I have a couple ABDL friends on Discord. One of them is autistic like me. We both love diapers and online diapered roleplay.

 

[BabyKing86]

I met one not too long ago. It is an awesome experience, but you always want to be careful since you don't know the actual person. You just know what they told you on social media, if that's how you met them.