Prilla50 said:
Yeh it's kind of like trans- age except for most people it's not permanent. So they don't feel that age all the time only when regressed.
while i understand the argument the counter would be Trans isn't necessarily permanent, thats part of the right and/or center biological determinists argument with trans children with studies point out how many "grow out of it" or were pressured into it etc. or the numerous reports you can google about Trans individuals of any age having surgery regret/ de-transitioning.
because it too has become associated ideology and a fad in many circles, so while its permanent for some its arguably not for others
Prilla50 said:
So they don't feel that age all the time only when regressed.
some do, some don't. as i pointed out at least a couple people i know "fake" acting like a adult to pass when it would be considered inappropriate to act the age they identify with.
ive seen similar closeted behaviour with one of my Trans friends when we worked together, until the culture started to change she cosplayed as Rob but anyone who knew her outside of work knew she was Elizabeth.
it was only later when work allowed it that she "came out" in the professional setting.
I wouldn't claim her closeted time as "don't feel that all the time" just as i wouldnt with anyone Trans-Age who is closeted in the same way.
Prilla50 said:
dk I feel like using that term is going to get some people really mad.
i think it would too, personally i think its a shame and hypocritical of them however.
as i mention some groups push back and aren't as inclusive as they may claim.
Prilla50 said:
people are so driven by idiology, I wish everyone could just be accepted for whatever they individual experience was
Exactly if its not hurting anyone why can't people identify how they want, why let some groups be the arbiters of whose experiences are valid or invalid.
Prilla50 said:
without having to piggyback of another group for recognition or dissociate with others
this is where while it shouldn't matter as far as lobbying for rights and recognition goes there is strength in numbers.
look at T in LGBT for example many LG and especially B say that T is incompatible and erases identity of the others because it blurs lines etc.
im not saying Bi-erasure is good/bad or the TERFs are correct/incorrect etc., but it can be argue'd mainstream Trans piggybacked on another group for recognition.(despite being arguably less/not compatible)
so it really feels like they took advantage for themselves and now that they're making slight progress they "pulled the ladder up behind them" to prevent similarly marginalized groups from working towards the same goals.
as i say in my eyes I hold it in equal measure to mainstream Trans because personally i don't like the cognitive dissonance and hypocrisy required to accept one but not the other when their arguments are nearly identical.
to each their own, i say i if its not hurting anyone people should be able to identify how they want, but until people discuss these things more openly people can't decide whether its worth fighting for that group identity or not but the world would be a better place if all people were just more accepting regardless of group affiliation.