My Friends

[James]

Well, i just told some of my friends, and they are having a bit of trouble actually understanding tb/abism can you guys explain it to them maybe i am just not explaining it well enough, so i can show this thread to them.

[Lukie]

This Article may be a good place to start.



Edit: As a side note, a Wiki Article on how to explain the whole thing to people might be helpful. Unless I'm totally missing it. >_>

[James]

Well, i told them, i was a tb, and showed them the confessions geocities site, then showed them adisc and they still have a problem like really understanding it they get like its liking diapers and stuff, but they are still a little confused.

[BluTack]

Ask them if they liked to hug their girlfriend for a very long time?

If they do. Just say it's like that but just want to be held like a baby and get all the attention and security.

[Todd]

Try and look at things from their perspective. If you put yourself in their shoes and think about it, then you might have a better idea of what it would take for them to understand your desires.

If you just tell them you like wearing diapers then it is bound to seem a little strange to them. Explaining the sense of security and the feelings of love and affection one gives a baby is moving along in the correct direction but I think you also need more than that.

I am probably not the best to be giving advice on who people wear diapers and get enjoyment out of it because I really don't care much for them. But I can understand their confusion when you explained it to them.

[Cupcake]

I told my best friend once, and she had a hard time understanding it as well. I told her I don't do anything with diapers anymore, she explained it off to herself as me being 'mentally unstable' lol.

[baby jester]

i told my friend and he was like ok what ever (he doesnt like the idea now or atleast he would rather me not talk about it around him). just say that you got your own lifestyle and ive got mine. like for an example if my sister ever found out i would say "its just my lifestyle like yours is to go party, get drunk, sleep with a guy, and then wind up pregnant , so atleast i wont be hurting myself or others in my lifestyle".
no i figure you need to explain it like they dont get why you are like that and you can say that it is just relaxing and a fun safe way to get away from life. you should also say to them: next time i have a night in diapers, i will call you and you can join me. i would like to see what they would say to that.
also dont forget to mention that it doesnt change who you are or what you like and if you would feel more comfortable if i didnt talk about it around you than that is fine too.

well theres my 2 cents in this

[link]

i never told my friend, but he found out anyway. if you know Blarg from the story forum (thats the only place he goes to), thats my friend. he doesn't really understand it, but he thinks he does. he has some theories, that are right in some cases, but they're not right in most cases.

[baby jester]

i might tell my other friend one day but not now.

[Me :p]

you should show them understanding.infantilism. It really is for parents but I think it could work for friends, or atleast the "understanding" part