Want to tell your parents? Think about this first.

Darkfinn · 20-07-2008

Hey all...

I've been browsing a few other diaper boards... and I came across a post about people telling their parents about their attraction to diapers. There were some interesting things said... then someone posted a "letter" that made a lot of sense to me. Let's look at this from a slightly different point of view.

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Dear Son,

I want you to know this has nothing to do with you. I love it in the ass. Really, it just makes me very happy. I'm not asking you for permission or anything. I just want you to know it make me squeal like a pig when I get it shoved up my poop chute. Again, there is nothing wrong with me. Don't worry, your father and I did it missionary still when you were conceived ... or was it that time he took me in the kitchen? Regardless, I've done a lot of research over the years and I've come to find I am known as an anal slut or ass whore. Again, this has nothing whatsoever to do with gay men or such, it's simply a desire I have and it's easier than going on the pill and cheaper than condoms. I'm old enough to have tried all sorts of positions and holes, but I like it in the ass the best. As a matter of fact, plenty of other people I talk to and have read about on the internet feel the same way. I don't want you to think of me as being any different than you do already.

You're Mother,
Mommy

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I'm sure many of you were somewhat disgusted by the thought of your own mother doing this.

The same thing applies to you and your infantilist desires. They are a personal matter and odds are your parents really don't want to know anthing about them.

So... there is the advice... take it or leave it... but at least think about it before you go and do something stupid.

Ryan_d · 20-07-2008

You are always against telling your parents..... I dont understand why......

Here is my thing. My mom wants to know that I trust her. So, the fact that I trust her to keep a secret of mine. To be there if I get depressed. I mean she gave birth to me! she has a right to know something!

I mean, where do you draw the line. Next things next, we wont tell our parents we are Gay.

We all need to realsise each parent is diffrent. I'm sorry, but putting PROPAGANDA like this on ADISC. I have to wonder, Why? why are you so against it, did you ever tell your parents and it went very wrong? I mean, are you speaking out of personal experience, because you knwo something. I am.

Pojo · 20-07-2008

I think there is a difference between your parents telling you something like that, and you telling your parents...To an extent...If you're still a kid, and you tell your parents, then it's understandable, since you are just looking for acceptance, and you don't have all the resources like your parents do, to get people to understand...But if you're like 18+, then you shouldn't tell them, since you're pretty much an adult, and you should be able to find acceptance on your own from other people besides your parents...Parent's should just never tell their kids these things, since they are older and know better

Mr Alex · 20-07-2008

I was really surprised when I made THIS I never saw that coming, however, this is non household family, I suppose I should make another poll. You could tell them if you wanted, however I still wouldn't recommend it, all the good that will come of it is awkward silence.

Fire2box · 20-07-2008

Both times I told my parents I was in a great deal of distress. The second time when I told my dad wasn't so he could say "its okay tim." it was so that I could hear that he thought I was a freak that way I would find it a lot easier to kill myself. However he understood why I would find comfort wearing diapers (not using, but wearing) and sleeping with stuffed animals again since when I did those things I didn't have really anything to worry about.

I think I told my mom just since I wanted to tell someone and maybe find acceptance from her. I just saw Lilo And Stitch that night and lilo going on and on about broken family's and whatnot struck a cord in me. So I called my mom I ended up having a nervous breakdown and she asked me what was wrong. So I told her all of my problems one of which was me hating what I am. She was shocked by it, later on she freaked out about it. Then more later on she felt the need to tell my older sister and my step-dad after me and her got into a fight.

So in hind-sight it was a bad idea to tell my mom. But a okay/good idea to tell my dad.

dogboy · 20-07-2008

I think you tell your parents when you are in emotional trouble with it. My parents found out about me when I was crashing into a nervous breakdown. And though they took my to a psychologist, they did so because they were worried about me, and of course they couldn't understand my behavior. They tried their best, but in the end, I had to find my own way.

Most of us choose not to tell, for many reasons. Mine was shame, not wanting to explain, and not wanting to have to stop. If parents are good and loving parents, they will be there for their child. Mine were even though it was hard on both of us.

**Kraiden** · 20-07-2008

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Originally Posted by Ryan_d

I mean, where do you draw the line. Next things next, we wont tell our parents we are Gay.

Hey, You might think you know your parents, but you never know how they'll react. I always though my mother would be ok with me being gay. I was wrong.

Even the most loving parents might flip out.

mzkkbprmt · 20-07-2008

Your parents are meant to love you and look after you, and you have no choice about not living there unless you have some very good friends or you like the street? They deserve you trust. While I don't necessarily think you should, because you don't know how they would react - you should at least be willing to tell them if it becomes necessary, at least until you move out.

Shupie · 20-07-2008

Arr, I know generally it's risky to tell parents certain things because you don't know how they'll react. I mean, I always hear about parents wanting their kids to move out...over diapers of all things! With my mother, who is the only parent I live with at the moment (besides when my grandmother stays for a few months here and there), I know I don't have to worry about her wanting to kick me out if she finds out that I like to wear and use diapers.

She always makes it known that she wants to be close to me and know what's going on in my life. She's freely let known personal information about herself, to the point of telling me that she's been interested in women sometimes, and even encouraging me to have safe sex with my boyfriend. She just says "I know kids are going to go and do things regardless" so she'd rather know I'm safe than go about hiding things. I don't mind her desire to stay close to me, a lot of things she says and does gives me a laugh, even if it creeps out my friends or make them all "Gee, wish my mom was like that D:"

I haven't explained to her I feel like an adult baby, but she knows I have baby things and I've told her that I like having onesies, bottles, and pacifiers. She just drew the line at wearing diapers, thankfully before I could even mention them. Even so, sometimes she'll mention diapers as if I did wear them, and was rather excited when I mentioned using those disposeable panties, and even accepted a pair from me. Though I think she wants to give it back now. XD; So maybe if I ever did have to admit my diaper loving she won't be too taken back. Either way, I'm certainly not expecting to get kicked out over anything, unless I do something really horribly bad.

So yeah. I think what it comes down to is really how your parents are towards you. Even if they seem very nice about things, you still never know, and sometimes there really isn't a reason to disclose every little thing to them. But then again, sometimes people just have parents that are pretty cool with most alternative things and would be happy their kid feels comfortable enough to share their personal life with them. I guess the best thing for sure is to not randomly dump it all on them at once, 'cause I'm sure the first thing they'll think of is "what did I do so wrong that they want to be babies again?" before they can even try to understand it.

daria7483 · 20-07-2008

I think Darkfinn's letter hit the nail on the head. I'm opposed to telling parents in about 90 percent of situations, for exactly the reasoning the letter induces. Your parents do not need to know about what you do behind closed doors...well, with the possible exception of sex, but that's a little different since you could get pregnant/get a girl pregnant or get a disease.

20-07-2008	#1 (permalink)
Darkfinn Regular Historical Donor Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Charlotte, NC Age: 24 Posts: 2,720 Threads: 68 Gallery Uploads: 16 Wiki Edits: 4 Blog Entries: 17	Want to tell your parents? Think about this first. Hey all... I've been browsing a few other diaper boards... and I came across a post about people telling their parents about their attraction to diapers. There were some interesting things said... then someone posted a "letter" that made a lot of sense to me. Let's look at this from a slightly different point of view. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Son, I want you to know this has nothing to do with you. I love it in the ass. Really, it just makes me very happy. I'm not asking you for permission or anything. I just want you to know it make me squeal like a pig when I get it shoved up my poop chute. Again, there is nothing wrong with me. Don't worry, your father and I did it missionary still when you were conceived ... or was it that time he took me in the kitchen? Regardless, I've done a lot of research over the years and I've come to find I am known as an anal slut or ass whore. Again, this has nothing whatsoever to do with gay men or such, it's simply a desire I have and it's easier than going on the pill and cheaper than condoms. I'm old enough to have tried all sorts of positions and holes, but I like it in the ass the best. As a matter of fact, plenty of other people I talk to and have read about on the internet feel the same way. I don't want you to think of me as being any different than you do already. You're Mother, Mommy -------------------------------------------------------------------------- I'm sure many of you were somewhat disgusted by the thought of your own mother doing this. The same thing applies to you and your infantilist desires. They are a personal matter and odds are your parents really don't want to know anthing about them. So... there is the advice... take it or leave it... but at least think about it before you go and do something stupid.

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20-07-2008	#2 (permalink)
Ryan_d Regular Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: California, USA, East Bay Age: 17 Posts: 243 Threads: 18 Blog Entries: 1	You are always against telling your parents..... I dont understand why...... Here is my thing. My mom wants to know that I trust her. So, the fact that I trust her to keep a secret of mine. To be there if I get depressed. I mean she gave birth to me! she has a right to know something! I mean, where do you draw the line. Next things next, we wont tell our parents we are Gay. We all need to realsise each parent is diffrent. I'm sorry, but putting PROPAGANDA like this on ADISC. I have to wonder, Why? why are you so against it, did you ever tell your parents and it went very wrong? I mean, are you speaking out of personal experience, because you knwo something. I am.

20-07-2008	#3 (permalink)
Pojo I rape your post count Historical Donor Staff Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Cow-Land, VA Age: 18 Posts: 3,883 Threads: 62 Gallery Uploads: 6 Wiki Edits: 98 Blog Entries: 19	I think there is a difference between your parents telling you something like that, and you telling your parents...To an extent...If you're still a kid, and you tell your parents, then it's understandable, since you are just looking for acceptance, and you don't have all the resources like your parents do, to get people to understand...But if you're like 18+, then you shouldn't tell them, since you're pretty much an adult, and you should be able to find acceptance on your own from other people besides your parents...Parent's should just never tell their kids these things, since they are older and know better

20-07-2008	#4 (permalink)
Mr Alex Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Michigan Age: 15 Posts: 1,937 Threads: 56 Gallery Uploads: 2 Wiki Edits: 11	I was really surprised when I made THIS I never saw that coming, however, this is non household family, I suppose I should make another poll. You could tell them if you wanted, however I still wouldn't recommend it, all the good that will come of it is awkward silence.

20-07-2008	#5 (permalink)
Fire2box Meh Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: California,USA Age: 21 Posts: 1,701 Threads: 20 Gallery Uploads: 8 Wiki Edits: 2 Blog Entries: 4	Both times I told my parents I was in a great deal of distress. The second time when I told my dad wasn't so he could say "its okay tim." it was so that I could hear that he thought I was a freak that way I would find it a lot easier to kill myself. However he understood why I would find comfort wearing diapers (not using, but wearing) and sleeping with stuffed animals again since when I did those things I didn't have really anything to worry about. I think I told my mom just since I wanted to tell someone and maybe find acceptance from her. I just saw Lilo And Stitch that night and lilo going on and on about broken family's and whatnot struck a cord in me. So I called my mom I ended up having a nervous breakdown and she asked me what was wrong. So I told her all of my problems one of which was me hating what I am. She was shocked by it, later on she freaked out about it. Then more later on she felt the need to tell my older sister and my step-dad after me and her got into a fight. So in hind-sight it was a bad idea to tell my mom. But a okay/good idea to tell my dad.

20-07-2008	#6 (permalink)
dogboy VIP Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Virginia, USA Posts: 906 Threads: 3	I think you tell your parents when you are in emotional trouble with it. My parents found out about me when I was crashing into a nervous breakdown. And though they took my to a psychologist, they did so because they were worried about me, and of course they couldn't understand my behavior. They tried their best, but in the end, I had to find my own way. Most of us choose not to tell, for many reasons. Mine was shame, not wanting to explain, and not wanting to have to stop. If parents are good and loving parents, they will be there for their child. Mine were even though it was hard on both of us.

20-07-2008	#8 (permalink)
mzkkbprmt Consonants FTW Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Birmingham, United Kingdom Age: 17 Posts: 900 Threads: 27 Gallery Uploads: 26 Blog Entries: 16	Your parents are meant to love you and look after you, and you have no choice about not living there unless you have some very good friends or you like the street? They deserve you trust. While I don't necessarily think you should, because you don't know how they would react - you should at least be willing to tell them if it becomes necessary, at least until you move out.

20-07-2008	#9 (permalink)
Shupie Lurker Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: New York City Age: 19 Posts: 96 Threads: 2 Reputation: 7	Arr, I know generally it's risky to tell parents certain things because you don't know how they'll react. I mean, I always hear about parents wanting their kids to move out...over diapers of all things! With my mother, who is the only parent I live with at the moment (besides when my grandmother stays for a few months here and there), I know I don't have to worry about her wanting to kick me out if she finds out that I like to wear and use diapers. She always makes it known that she wants to be close to me and know what's going on in my life. She's freely let known personal information about herself, to the point of telling me that she's been interested in women sometimes, and even encouraging me to have safe sex with my boyfriend. She just says "I know kids are going to go and do things regardless" so she'd rather know I'm safe than go about hiding things. I don't mind her desire to stay close to me, a lot of things she says and does gives me a laugh, even if it creeps out my friends or make them all "Gee, wish my mom was like that D:" I haven't explained to her I feel like an adult baby, but she knows I have baby things and I've told her that I like having onesies, bottles, and pacifiers. She just drew the line at wearing diapers, thankfully before I could even mention them. Even so, sometimes she'll mention diapers as if I did wear them, and was rather excited when I mentioned using those disposeable panties, and even accepted a pair from me. Though I think she wants to give it back now. XD; So maybe if I ever did have to admit my diaper loving she won't be too taken back. Either way, I'm certainly not expecting to get kicked out over anything, unless I do something really horribly bad. So yeah. I think what it comes down to is really how your parents are towards you. Even if they seem very nice about things, you still never know, and sometimes there really isn't a reason to disclose every little thing to them. But then again, sometimes people just have parents that are pretty cool with most alternative things and would be happy their kid feels comfortable enough to share their personal life with them. I guess the best thing for sure is to not randomly dump it all on them at once, 'cause I'm sure the first thing they'll think of is "what did I do so wrong that they want to be babies again?" before they can even try to understand it.

20-07-2008	#10 (permalink)
daria7483 VIP Historical Donor Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Virginia, USA Age: 25 Posts: 573 Threads: 10	I think Darkfinn's letter hit the nail on the head. I'm opposed to telling parents in about 90 percent of situations, for exactly the reasoning the letter induces. Your parents do not need to know about what you do behind closed doors...well, with the possible exception of sex, but that's a little different since you could get pregnant/get a girl pregnant or get a disease.