Well, my room is clean, but at what cost?

Dragon · 08-07-2008

I was at boy scout camp you see and my mom did some cleaning... I looked through my hiding spots and found nothing where it should be. My bottle and pacis were gone, my Goodnites too. I have no idea if this is going to be brought up at some point or not. Erp... This ever happen to anyone else? Halp plox?

daria7483 · 08-07-2008

The summer after my grandmother died, I had some adult diapers hidden in my closet in a bag with pacifiers, bottles, and condoms (don't ask). Since I was in college my mom was using my closet to store some of my grandmother's stuff that she hadn't had a chance to sort through yet. One day, I came home and the adult diapers (which were the same brand that my grandmother had worn before she died) had been pulled out of the bag, and were stacked on the closet floor with some other stuff. The rest of the stuff was undisturbed. My mom never said a word, but I always wondered what she thought...did she realize the diapers were mine? If not, didn't she wonder why they were in a bag with pacis and bottles and condoms? I never touched the diapers again, I think they eventually got donated with some other stuff to the nursing home.

Anyway, I'm sorry to hear about all your stuff. I'm going to guess that if your mom hasn't said anything yet, she probably won't. You know her better than us. If she is usually cool and not the kind of mom who yells at you or judges you for everything, then you're probably OK. I don't think parents want to have that conversation any more than we want to have it with them. Then again, not sure why she felt the need to throw everything away. It sucks that you lost your stuff.

Pojo · 08-07-2008

It's possible she'll bring it up later...Or she won't at all...I think it would be best for you not to bring it up first though...

Error404 · 08-07-2008

Oh wow...That's gotta be scary... I know how it was when my parents found my stash and even with having already confessed to being a TBDL, I felt pretty awkward, fortunately I hadn't lost the stuff though, my parents just put them where I could access them, they know me well enough that had they thrown the stuff out, I'd of flipped.

I had a rather long coil of magnesium ribbon that my mother threw out. Suffice to say we did not speak for two days and when she threw away my other pacifier at an early age (Read: Made me watch her flush it down the toilet because I was 'too old for it'.) I had a massive massive tantrum, very very violent one, biting, kicking, everything.

I hope for your sake this all goes well for you.

Darkfinn · 08-07-2008

oh... ouch... I guess just ignore it for now... hope it'll go away... sorry to hear about that though...

dogboy · 08-07-2008

Ouch to everyone! Historically, this is what mothers do, since my mom did the same to me when I was in college. I basically was going through a nervous breakdown my senior year; too much drugs, sex and rock n roll. OK, it wasn't the rock n roll, but definitely the sex. Apparently she thought she would find the answers by searching my room at home, and what she found was my diaper stash, as well as my porn which was very underground, shall we say (also a don't ask!) She however did confront me, and I wound up at a mental health residential facility, though I was an out patient with a suicide number to call, and everything. If you ever saw the movie "Girl Interrupted" I was close to that, just not confined.

If your mom has not confronted you, she probably won't, though it will probably bug you for a long time to come. Parents, and I am one of them, really don't want to know what their kids are doing sexually, as long as they feel they aren't hurting themselves. In my case, I was hurting myself, so my mom intervened. Like the others have said, I'd just lay low and not say anything about it. Remember that one day you'll be out on your own, doing your own thing.

jasonthebeast · 09-07-2008

it's best to move on, don't say anything, unless she brings it up. It's tough, but move on.

Me :p · 09-07-2008

Were they hidden in your room? Wait... Duh! Its in the title! Well that's already a no no right there, now she knows theyre yours. Just forget about it and keep denying it like what? Huh? She will just get tired of it and forget it. (hopefully)

Dave · 09-07-2008

Yeah try to forget it ever happened, or confront her but don't let it get to you.

Me :p · 09-07-2008

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dave

Yeah try to forget it ever happened, or confront her but don't let it get to you.

Confronting her is just as bad as asking for it... That's suicide!

08-07-2008	#1 (permalink)
Dragon Regular Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Minnesota Age: 15 Posts: 63 Threads: 18 Wiki Edits: 1 Reputation: 3	Well, my room is clean, but at what cost? I was at boy scout camp you see and my mom did some cleaning... I looked through my hiding spots and found nothing where it should be. My bottle and pacis were gone, my Goodnites too. I have no idea if this is going to be brought up at some point or not. Erp... This ever happen to anyone else? Halp plox?

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08-07-2008	#2 (permalink)
daria7483 VIP Historical Donor Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Virginia, USA Age: 25 Posts: 573 Threads: 10	The summer after my grandmother died, I had some adult diapers hidden in my closet in a bag with pacifiers, bottles, and condoms (don't ask). Since I was in college my mom was using my closet to store some of my grandmother's stuff that she hadn't had a chance to sort through yet. One day, I came home and the adult diapers (which were the same brand that my grandmother had worn before she died) had been pulled out of the bag, and were stacked on the closet floor with some other stuff. The rest of the stuff was undisturbed. My mom never said a word, but I always wondered what she thought...did she realize the diapers were mine? If not, didn't she wonder why they were in a bag with pacis and bottles and condoms? I never touched the diapers again, I think they eventually got donated with some other stuff to the nursing home. Anyway, I'm sorry to hear about all your stuff. I'm going to guess that if your mom hasn't said anything yet, she probably won't. You know her better than us. If she is usually cool and not the kind of mom who yells at you or judges you for everything, then you're probably OK. I don't think parents want to have that conversation any more than we want to have it with them. Then again, not sure why she felt the need to throw everything away. It sucks that you lost your stuff.

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Pojo I rape your post count Historical Donor Staff Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Cow-Land, VA Age: 18 Posts: 3,883 Threads: 62 Gallery Uploads: 6 Wiki Edits: 98 Blog Entries: 19	It's possible she'll bring it up later...Or she won't at all...I think it would be best for you not to bring it up first though...

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Error404 Regular Join Date: May 2008 Location: England. Age: 19 Posts: 778 Threads: 35 Wiki Edits: 8	Oh wow...That's gotta be scary... I know how it was when my parents found my stash and even with having already confessed to being a TBDL, I felt pretty awkward, fortunately I hadn't lost the stuff though, my parents just put them where I could access them, they know me well enough that had they thrown the stuff out, I'd of flipped. I had a rather long coil of magnesium ribbon that my mother threw out. Suffice to say we did not speak for two days and when she threw away my other pacifier at an early age (Read: Made me watch her flush it down the toilet because I was 'too old for it'.) I had a massive massive tantrum, very very violent one, biting, kicking, everything. I hope for your sake this all goes well for you.

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Darkfinn Regular Historical Donor Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Charlotte, NC Age: 24 Posts: 2,720 Threads: 68 Gallery Uploads: 16 Wiki Edits: 4 Blog Entries: 17	oh... ouch... I guess just ignore it for now... hope it'll go away... sorry to hear about that though...

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dogboy VIP Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Virginia, USA Posts: 906 Threads: 3	Ouch to everyone! Historically, this is what mothers do, since my mom did the same to me when I was in college. I basically was going through a nervous breakdown my senior year; too much drugs, sex and rock n roll. OK, it wasn't the rock n roll, but definitely the sex. Apparently she thought she would find the answers by searching my room at home, and what she found was my diaper stash, as well as my porn which was very underground, shall we say (also a don't ask!) She however did confront me, and I wound up at a mental health residential facility, though I was an out patient with a suicide number to call, and everything. If you ever saw the movie "Girl Interrupted" I was close to that, just not confined. If your mom has not confronted you, she probably won't, though it will probably bug you for a long time to come. Parents, and I am one of them, really don't want to know what their kids are doing sexually, as long as they feel they aren't hurting themselves. In my case, I was hurting myself, so my mom intervened. Like the others have said, I'd just lay low and not say anything about it. Remember that one day you'll be out on your own, doing your own thing.

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jasonthebeast Regular Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: USA Age: 16 Posts: 137 Threads: 14 Reputation: 1	it's best to move on, don't say anything, unless she brings it up. It's tough, but move on.

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Me :p Lives: $9.95 Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Mamaroneck, NY USA Age: 15 Posts: 1,004 Threads: 11 Gallery Uploads: 7 Wiki Edits: 1 Blog Entries: 3	Were they hidden in your room? Wait... Duh! Its in the title! Well that's already a no no right there, now she knows theyre yours. Just forget about it and keep denying it like what? Huh? She will just get tired of it and forget it. (hopefully)

09-07-2008	#9 (permalink)
Dave Regular Join Date: May 2008 Location: I am whereever my Imagination takes me Age: 18 Posts: 227 Threads: 12 Blog Entries: 6 Reputation: 3	Yeah try to forget it ever happened, or confront her but don't let it get to you.