How do I tell my parents?

[Wolfpup270]

I was thinking of just sending the link to my mom's work email address to let her think about it for a day, then we could figure out how to tell my dad. I am pretty sure they saw the diapers but just won't tell me. So... how should I tell them?

[oblivionxi1]

Originally Posted by Wolfpup270

I was thinking of just sending the link to my mom's work email address to let her think about it for a day, then we could figure out how to tell my dad. I am pretty sure they saw the diapers but just won't tell me. So... how should I tell them?

DON'T, SAVE YOURSELF!

That being said, are you sure they saw them? You should be completely sure before doing this kind of thing. If they did and your sure, maybe. Are your parents (or just your mom even) Really understanding people? If they are, and your sure, and you really want to tell them, make sure you get off on the right foot. Make sure the links and confession you send are in favor of infantilism and explain it fairly well. When your mom gets home, make sure she actually got the email then let her speak her mind. If it starts off like "are you crazy!?" or "whats wrong with you!!" then your utterly screwed my friend, you have made a very poor choice. If how ever she doesn't flip you may be ok.

Think about this for a very long time before you do it. The overall question, Will they accept or reject it.

You may want to send it earlier in the day so your mom has alot of time to think it over, resulting in a much calmer situation. However, she may just come home early and get really mad. Typicly, if they don't know, its better to keep it that way!

If it is affecting your life a negitive way and you want to stop, maybe. I recommend STRONGLY AGAINST it though.

Another thing, Avoid having it related to anything with a sexual nature, parents don't want to think about there kids and sex at the same time. Keep it towards the benificial side of it, make it off like its a good thing that helps you function as a normal person.

She may accept it well, and end up helping you in the end (buying you diapers perhapes?) though this rarly ever happens, never ever count on it.

Again, think LONG and HARD about what your doing, this could be the best or very well the worst choice of your entire life! You should check other peoples post about his topic in the forums, they will help you.

EDIT: What about your dad? Now think about how HE would react. If you do end up going through with it take the topic up with your mother first and ask her to tell him. Hes less likely to spaz out then.

Also, welcome to the site! Be sure to post an itro in the introductions section.

[LilttleJay]

If I were you I wouldnt say a thing.... but thats just me

[kenshi]

If they haven't said anything they either are waiting for the right time to speak up or they don't want to get involved. Telling your parents about (what I'm assuming is) a sexual thing is awkward for both sides. You wouldn't ask any embarrasing questions if you walked in on your mom whipping your dad in full bondage gear so why would they want to know what makes you jolly in the pants? It is best to just avoid the awkwardness as much as possible and not say anything unless they confront you.

[Error404]

Originally Posted by kenshi

If they haven't said anything they either are waiting for the right time to speak up or they don't want to get involved. Telling your parents about (what I'm assuming is) a sexual thing is awkward for both sides. You wouldn't ask any embarrasing questions if you walked in on your mom whipping your dad in full bondage gear so why would they want to know what makes you jolly in the pants? It is best to just avoid the awkwardness as much as possible and not say anything unless they confront you.

That's completely different. It's pretty obvious what the items used are for (That, and the SIGHT would be confirming enoigh.). Diapers on the other hand can be used for legitimate purposes that could be otherwise worrying to a parent. It's not like finding a dildo that only has one purpose.

[talula]

Originally Posted by Error404

It's not like finding a dildo that only has one purpose.

Although we do have a flat dildo, who's pain purpose is to be worn as an earring and make people unconcfortable...

On a serious note: Why would sending your mother just a link be in any way helpful? You need to speak to her about if you really want her to know, and sending her an unexplained link and expecting her to browse through it while she's at work is just ridiculous!

[babylife247]

Look I been on this forum alone time know guys think not good tell your parents but to be all out honsey most parent will be understand about this. That maybe want see head head doctor to make sure your it ok for there comfort but all dr going do tell parent it fine what doing along does not hurt you in anyway

Here my advice if know parents than tell them in person yes your going to get butterfly doing this but most parent will be like ok with and asking question about what some detail .

Another thing don't get why try make fetish it some sick thing yes ab and dl that add sex part but that in my way is sick to me.

For one try act like baby what most bless thing to world and than got guys and women that like get off in there diaper or have mommy or daddy beat them in my point view sick and that should get help .

To me if your going act life baby or wear diaper do in manner respect what all try act like in first small child or baby . Keep the sex part out to me it just sick and mess up in my point view that why we get bad look from public becuase people like this.

[Raccoon]

Originally Posted by Wolfpup270

I was thinking of just sending the link to my mom's work email address to let her think about it for a day, then we could figure out how to tell my dad. I am pretty sure they saw the diapers but just won't tell me. So... how should I tell them?

At this point the forum lists this as your only post; so with only the information in it to go by, there really isn't much to go on.

I am pretty sure they saw the diapers

Under your pillow? On you? In the shopping cart? Left inside the sleeping bag?

It makes a difference, because it affects whatever conclusions you are guessing your folks have jumped to. Also, your age comes into play (which you may reveal, or not, as you see fit.)

Hypothetically, there are several reasons a teen might have one or two disposables: temporary wetting problems, avoiding the embarassing mess of wet dreams, for the occasional REALLY addictive video game, really long transit journeys... Fetishism need not be the first thing to spring to mind. If you have a case of them, that might be harder to explain.

Your profile says you are bi and furry. If your folks know about (and accept) one or both of these, fetishism might not be a huge shock to ad to the mix. On the other hand, if they don't know, all three is a bit of a heavy trip to lay on them in one go. Again, age comes into it. It is one thing for a twelve year old to say they are bi, who might think having close friends or having experimented a little settles the issue; it is another thing for a seventeen year old, who knows what's what.

You might want to give a bit more info, especially on the "seeing the diapers" episode, for us to give useful suggestions as to whether to tell your folks - and if so, how.

For the time being, I would have you BE PREPARED to discuss it if they bring it up, with websites at the ready (like Bittergrey's Understanding Infantilism) - but do not bring it up first. If they do figure it's a turnon, they may want to know nothing more, especially if they have done their homework.

[Valerye]

Mom, I like to piss and shit in diapers. Do you still love me?

That should go over well.

Or you could go with.

Mom, I like to dress up as a baby including diapers and act like a baby. Do you still love me?

Bot should get the same reaction.

[Dan155]

Originally Posted by Wolfpup270

I was thinking of just sending the link to my mom's work email address to let her think about it for a day, then we could figure out how to tell my dad. I am pretty sure they saw the diapers but just won't tell me. So... how should I tell them?

I wouldn't tell them tbh, i tend to view fetishes private sexual thing. It depends how into it you are. Im only into the diaper thing now and again, occasionally wanking to the thought of wearing diapers is enough to satisfy me most of the time so the only time i actually wear diapers is if my parents are on holiday. However if you feel like you need to wear diapers multiple times a week then it might be hard to conceal it from your parents. Personally theres a variety of non diaper related stuff that i can use to satisfy my sexual urges.

I treat my diaper fettish like any other fettish/fantasy that people might have, whether its bondage, dressing up as an animal and having sex , sucking off a room full of guys or dressing up as a woman. Whatever gets you off is fine but its not something that you want to discuss with mum and dad unless they catch you and bring it up.