How do I tell my parents?

[babylife247]

wow you all make out some you tell your parent about be TB/AB or DL your parents are going hate you I learn life way to sort to worry about what if in life. If you really want go head tell your parent do it your parent will love you not matter what because your there sons or daughters .

[DL69047]

Originally Posted by Wolfpup270

I was thinking of just sending the link to my mom's work email address to let her think about it for a day, then we could figure out how to tell my dad. I am pretty sure they saw the diapers but just won't tell me. So... how should I tell them?

At one point I was just like you. I wanted to tell, so I did. I sent my Mom an Email telling her all about it. After that we spent 2 hours at the beach talking.
She did not flip out, but she did not accept it either. We came to the agreement of me controlling my urges.
So for the last 3 months I have been, but came back to Diapers a few days ago (Without her knowing).

So, if you want to tell. Just tell and hope for the best. But be darn sure you have every base covered when they start asking questions, tons of very personal questions.

I would just let them find you out and come to you, and you not go to them.

[Valerye]

Originally Posted by babylife247

wow you all make out some you tell your parent about be TB/AB or DL your parents are going hate you . I learn life way to sort to worry about what if in life if really want go head tell your parent do it your parent wil love you not matter what because your there sons or daughters .

They may accept it but fact is....They wish you never told them.

[babylife247]

Can ask you why you would wish you never told them please explain in detail .

[Valerye]

Originally Posted by babylife247

Can ask you why you would wish you never told them please explain in detail .

Like I said. "They"


The reason why is, it changes their view on their child. It forces them to acknowledge that their child is sexualy involved in something out of the ordinary sex scene. It changes their view on themselves. They question If they had something to do with this. They question if they gave you enough love and attention when you were younger. It shatters the way they know/view you and forces them to have a radical view change in the way they view you. They are forced to try and understand why you are like that. It is things like this which is why they wish you would not have told them. Now, not all parents are like that though. But I am willing to bet most are.

[oblivionxi1]

^^^ Second that, take no chances!

[fifigal]

Originally Posted by Valerye

Like I said. "They"


The reason why is, it changes their view on their child. It forces them to acknowledge that their child is sexualy involved in something out of the ordinary sex scene. It changes their view on themselves. They question If they had something to do with this. They question if they gave you enough love and attention when you were younger. It shatters the way they know/view you and forces them to have a radical view change in the way they view you. They are forced to try and understand why you are like that. It is things like this which is why they wish you would not have told them. Now, not all parents are like that though. But I am willing to bet most are.

I did not 'tell' my parents, they found out by 'discovering' my diapers and little girl clothing ( 'discovering' = searching for, and destroying them when found ). At first, they thought I would out-grow these interests, but through out the years they would keep 'discovering' my stash of baby girl/ little girl things. I know my parents loved me, and they thought their actions were in my best interest, but things were never the same between us once they realized these desires of mine were not going to go away. I used to eaves-drop on their conversations about me, I remember over-hearing my father telling my mother that she gave me too much pampering ( not the commercial brand of diapers ) and attention and that her actions were making me a sissy. Mom would blame my father for not spending enough time with me and teaching me how to be more manly. More than once, I heard them say they wished they had a normal boy. Eventually, we were all so uncomfortable around each other, we avoided each others company altogether. Only you know your parents well enough to decide whether or not to tell them, but no matter how they take the news, it will change your family dynamics forever.

[eric007]

Difficult choice... difficult topic.

First: I - like most others here - do strongly recommend you NOT to reveal this to your parents...

I'd like you to ask yourself a couple of questions before you go and tell them if you still want to:

1. WHY - Why do you want to let them know?
a- is it because you want to indulge into diapers & stuff more openly, freely,etc?
b- because you're tired of hiding your stuff and hoping no one finds out?
c- because you're afraid of being caught inflagranti without having any good excuse for the diapers?
d- is it because you feel lying and hiding things from mom & dad is bad?
e- because you don't feel comfortable "doing diapers" and need your parents "consent and understanding & approval"?

2. WHY Do you think your parents SHOULD know about this?

3. Try to think of a multitude of possible reactions, based on your relationship to your parents and also from the way they are.
- Can they keep it a secret or will half your neighborhood be in the know?
- Are they Openminded when it comes to sexual topics and alternative lifestyles (think Gay, S&M, Fetishes in general...) or are they the pure opposite (Moralistic Conservatives)?
- Do you have any siblings? (and what's your relationship with them... will half the school know withing 2 minutes?)
- Are you prepared to answer tons of questions? Maybe be sent to a shrink, etc...?


IT WILL QUITE POSSIBLE have a huge impact on the relationship between you and your parents... and depending on their upbringing, ideology, lifestyle, etc they will either question themselves quite severely ("What have we done wrong?") and / or condemn you for doing what you do. Some will embrace you no matter what - but it most often will take a lot of time for them to do so - after all it's a bit on the strange side for "outsiders".
One of my friends is seriously gay - be "seriously" I mean he's one hell of a "show-off"... obviously aiming for "being seen gay", dressing the part (very feminine) etc...
He's a good guy and quite bright. Highly successful in his job and very helpful.
After coming out to his parents, whilst loving and understanding and not at all "conservative", it created a bit of a rift between them and there was a lot to talk about.
He said it was a couple of month until their relationship had ventured to a "new level" and all was quite fine again. Why? Well he said it came to them as some sort of Shock - even though they had suspected him being gay for quite some time.

Think twice before you do anything stupid - it can not be undone.

After all in a couple of years ( I don't know how old you are ) you'll most likely live on your own - where you can indulge into diapers and stuff as much as you want without having anyone "stumble" across your stash or anything alike.

Play it low for some time... take it easy - learn to control yourself (a lesson well worth the effort)

[Tumm]

I have had similiar situtation when I kept diapers along clothes and I think my dad may have seen them and his girlfriend because they put clean clothes on my bed after that. I didin't talk about it and they didin't question me. Only once I guess dad's girlfriend hinted me saying: "There is street festival going on and there are something for kids too so you are welcomed too." I just laughed a bit but that's all. Now I live in own house so I don't have to worry about hiding them.

[curiousitykitten]

Originally Posted by Tumm

I have had similiar situtation when I kept diapers along clothes and I think my dad may have seen them and his girlfriend because they put clean clothes on my bed after that. I didin't talk about it and they didin't question me. Only once I guess dad's girlfriend hinted me saying: "There is street festival going on and there are something for kids too so you are welcomed too." I just laughed a bit but that's all. Now I live in own house so I don't have to worry about hiding them.

your own house at 20? pretty awesome :]