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Suspence · 27-09-2009

Last night, my mom was snooping and found my stash... Hooray

She wasn't mad or anything, but she proceeded to enter a 90 minute bawl-fest about how this isn't going to serve me well in the future and the like...

I probably could get over this fetish if I had the confidence to go out and make friends and try to get a girlfriend, but I have zero self esteem

I really don't know what to do anymore

wannabesissybaby92 · 27-09-2009

think positive and you'll be fine.

I'm sure you're a nice person, just try to make friends when you can (like in school or in ANY extra curricular stuff e.g sports, bands, etc)

Believe me, ppl are always welcome to new additions to a friendship group and I'm sure you'll find a great group of friends in no time once you start trying to find some

NeiNei · 27-09-2009

Oh, man. I hate it when parents find the stuff you wanna keep private. At least it wasn't your grandma, though. *remembers when her grandma found all of the *B/DL pics on her computer* Be thankful she wasn't mad, though, but she probably blames herself for it somehow.

As for getting rid of the fetish....it's kind of...well...not really possible. You can suppress it, however, but it never really works out. Been there, done that, never worked. I still love medical related things. (My biggest fetish ever, so big I can't even talk about it in public without getting...well...hot.

)

Suspense, you're such a good guitarist and a really great kid. Keep your chin up high, and don't give up on the world. You have so many good qualities, and I'm absolutely positive that somebody out there will appreciate you.

*BROFISTS* Yeahhhh!

link · 27-09-2009

How would this not serve you well in the future? It a great, inexpensive stress relief system that has the absolute minimal physical and mental side effects. Even coffee is unhealthier. I'd say don't worry about yourself because of this fetish. I'd say the self esteem problem is much more self harming, but that's a problem that will work itself out as long as you let it. Just take your own advise and try to make some more friends, maby a date, and you'll have yourself a happy, healthy teenage life.

Suspence · 27-09-2009

Thanks for the ego boost guys

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Originally Posted by link

How would this not serve you well in the future? It a great, inexpensive stress relief system that has the absolute minimal physical and mental side effects. Even coffee is unhealthier. I'd say don't worry about yourself because of this fetish. I'd say the self esteem problem is much more self harming, but that's a problem that will work itself out as long as you let it. Just take your own advise and try to make some more friends, maby a date, and you'll have yourself a happy, healthy teenage life.

She's worried that I'll end up a hermit if I continue on with this..

Raos · 28-09-2009

Firstly, it looks like you have a firm group of friends here so don't worry about that.

Secondly, why care if your Mom thinks you're gonna be a hermit? It's what you think about yourself that counts, and you know you're not friendless, and that this is a harmless stress-relieving activity.

Thirdly (I hate lists, I'm sure other people do too, but there are many points to address here @.@) don't worry about 'getting over this fetish' as you say, just don't dwell on it too much - it's unhealthy to repress something so deeply integral to yourself, so just chill out about it. It's a part of you, it might be for the rest of your life, but it doesn't control you, remember that - and it certainly doesn't stop you from going out there and making friends; you're the one doing that. Go find some people with similar interests; join a band like Wannabe said.

Good luck out there, remember there's always Adisc if you need someone to turn to.

~Raos

diaperedteenager · 28-09-2009

Honestly, don't be worried about this, just humor her and say "yeah yeah, gottcha" and just blow your mom off, like I said just humor her. Other than that, keep up with your fetish, you can't get rid of it suppressing it will just make you unhappy. Like others have said it is a good inexpensive and healthier way of reveling stress.

I have not many friends and never had a GF I get sad sometimes, but I am ok for the most part. Anyway, diapers are no big deal, keep on going with them.

snake · 28-09-2009

you dont need self esteem to get friends i have no self esteem and im doing fine

Suspence · 28-09-2009

What got me about our conversation last night is that she offered to help me and asked me to talk to her about it, which I wouldn't, because I really don't know why I do it

**kingsc** · 28-09-2009

Hey You are very brave! Hang in ther!

27-09-2009	#1 (permalink)
Suspence Regular Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Isle of Wight County, Virginia Age: 17 Posts: 284 Threads: 29 Gallery Uploads: 5 Blog Entries: 2 Reputation: 4	Fml Last night, my mom was snooping and found my stash... Hooray She wasn't mad or anything, but she proceeded to enter a 90 minute bawl-fest about how this isn't going to serve me well in the future and the like... I probably could get over this fetish if I had the confidence to go out and make friends and try to get a girlfriend, but I have zero self esteem I really don't know what to do anymore

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27-09-2009	#2 (permalink)
wannabesissybaby92 Regular Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: London, England Posts: 185 Threads: 6 Reputation: 5	think positive and you'll be fine. I'm sure you're a nice person, just try to make friends when you can (like in school or in ANY extra curricular stuff e.g sports, bands, etc) Believe me, ppl are always welcome to new additions to a friendship group and I'm sure you'll find a great group of friends in no time once you start trying to find some

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NeiNei Sparky's Mommy Pup <3 Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 413 Threads: 6 Gallery Uploads: 2 Wiki Edits: 2 Blog Entries: 14 Reputation: 15	Oh, man. I hate it when parents find the stuff you wanna keep private. At least it wasn't your grandma, though. remembers when her grandma found all of the B/DL pics on her computer* Be thankful she wasn't mad, though, but she probably blames herself for it somehow. As for getting rid of the fetish....it's kind of...well...not really possible. You can suppress it, however, but it never really works out. Been there, done that, never worked. I still love medical related things. (My biggest fetish ever, so big I can't even talk about it in public without getting...well...hot. ) Suspense, you're such a good guitarist and a really great kid. Keep your chin up high, and don't give up on the world. You have so many good qualities, and I'm absolutely positive that somebody out there will appreciate you. BROFISTS Yeahhhh!

27-09-2009	#4 (permalink)
link VIP Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Near Chicago Age: 18 Posts: 1,084 Threads: 35 Gallery Uploads: 9 Reputation: 22	How would this not serve you well in the future? It a great, inexpensive stress relief system that has the absolute minimal physical and mental side effects. Even coffee is unhealthier. I'd say don't worry about yourself because of this fetish. I'd say the self esteem problem is much more self harming, but that's a problem that will work itself out as long as you let it. Just take your own advise and try to make some more friends, maby a date, and you'll have yourself a happy, healthy teenage life.

28-09-2009	#6 (permalink)
Raos Regular Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland, UK Age: 19 Posts: 31 Threads: 1 Reputation: 1	Firstly, it looks like you have a firm group of friends here so don't worry about that. Secondly, why care if your Mom thinks you're gonna be a hermit? It's what you think about yourself that counts, and you know you're not friendless, and that this is a harmless stress-relieving activity. Thirdly (I hate lists, I'm sure other people do too, but there are many points to address here @.@) don't worry about 'getting over this fetish' as you say, just don't dwell on it too much - it's unhealthy to repress something so deeply integral to yourself, so just chill out about it. It's a part of you, it might be for the rest of your life, but it doesn't control you, remember that - and it certainly doesn't stop you from going out there and making friends; you're the one doing that. Go find some people with similar interests; join a band like Wannabe said. Good luck out there, remember there's always Adisc if you need someone to turn to. ~Raos

28-09-2009	#7 (permalink)
diaperedteenager Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: That Place, USA Age: 17 Posts: 986 Threads: 298 Blog Entries: 14 Reputation: 1	Honestly, don't be worried about this, just humor her and say "yeah yeah, gottcha" and just blow your mom off, like I said just humor her. Other than that, keep up with your fetish, you can't get rid of it suppressing it will just make you unhappy. Like others have said it is a good inexpensive and healthier way of reveling stress. I have not many friends and never had a GF I get sad sometimes, but I am ok for the most part. Anyway, diapers are no big deal, keep on going with them.

28-09-2009	#8 (permalink)
snake Regular Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: usa Posts: 33 Threads: 2 Reputation: 0	you dont need self esteem to get friends i have no self esteem and im doing fine

28-09-2009	#9 (permalink)
Suspence Regular Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Isle of Wight County, Virginia Age: 17 Posts: 284 Threads: 29 Gallery Uploads: 5 Blog Entries: 2 Reputation: 4	What got me about our conversation last night is that she offered to help me and asked me to talk to her about it, which I wouldn't, because I really don't know why I do it

28-09-2009	#10 (permalink)
kingsc Newbie Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: SC,USA Posts: 1 Threads: 0 Reputation: 0	Hey You are very brave! Hang in ther!