significant others

Sorry if this is already a thread, but I didn’t see it when looking around. Just wanted to gauge, for those in relationships with non-DLs, whether your SO: 1) participates in wearing or using 2) accepts/tolerates your wearing/using, or 3) doesn’t accept/want anything to do with wearing or using...

So I have been on here for a while and just have not posted much. I am the significant other to a DL, but who has started exploring the AB side. When he first came out to me a couple of years ago, it took me a while to adjust- like it would with anyone. I was fine with the DL after a while and...

I have been a part of this site on and off since 2008. In that time I have enjoyed the advice, arguments, insults, compliments, crys for help, and the saving advice that followed. So thank you for that. All of you. Now this is not a cry for help in the sense that I am horribly depressed and...