I am not in any way saying this is a real thing, I only wish to bring a hypothetical situations to the table to further the discussion more in depth. Now I do what I can to not "force or impose" my desires onto any unwilling public, and I'll answer my own question honestly for the community.
So this situation is that you see a couple out, not anywhere too public, just a local convenience store where there is not too much traffic and mainly repeat customers, as they are repeat customers in complete normal attire most of the time. The staff are well aware of the situation and don't turn the other cheek, but play into it when the couple stops there be on slight occasion. This couple is a Daddy/LG relation between the two, and it has been like this for a couple years now. The confidence that the dou have is absolute. They are not bothered by being scene in a common environment where they are not usually challenged for the oddity of the situation that they portray to the others in the store. They are able to come in and leave without any real major distractions or issues pertaining to them. Both roleplay, not all the time but are not embarrassed, worried, troubled by the thought of on occasion if both are in the mindset that they don't mind going out to the store.
-So my thoughts are 1. You have a more natural environment in the store as the staff are understanding and don't judge the couple because they return in just normal clothing most of the time, if it is a more common store for certain same people. 2. That level of understanding within themselves is on a different level than most people in the community, but as long they are respectful in the manner to which they go about it, and don't force anyone else into the scene, then that is how I will try to put it into words as almost a natural, I don't know the words to describe it correctly. 3. The atmosphere created in the store is not a threatening one and thus, they are more likely to be their alter ego role play selves as they shop. This also includes the staff playing part in it and their ability to understand it sets the company image a certain way, but it is a "non-discriminating" image by today's world society standards in this part of the world. 4. If they are maintaining a respectful disposition then I feel that they are making their best effort to be a caring in the ways of thinking about how the others in the store are feeling and thinking. They just go about their day and politely in a respectful manner treat any questions asked towards them then it is showing that the community wants (or them more specifically) a fair treatment in the eyes of others not into it, or those that don't completely understand it. Those that want to learn more , if greeted in a respectful and polite manner, only shows good tidings from the duo. 5. "There is safety in numbers"
Now say that last statement safety in numbers is this. A group of say 14 indivuals mixed male/female, some duo, set up a meet up time at the nearby mall. Some are a Daddy/LG duo, some just a single individual wearing a diaper, and others of mixed races are all in one group. They just all go to the food court and eat in a non-obtrusive manner and chat about who they are, and make friends with another.
-The general public may not, and I feel, most might not understand, but some may come up to ask questions and say hi even. I feel we are in a state of society where we are in an UP-rising of acceptance of anyone, but that is a slow long road. I feel that it if they would not be obtrusive or acting in an aggressive or objective manner, then the harm is minimal at that, as they are out of the norm but not caring about other's thoughts which does bring up controversy about what the harm, is, and to who is getting the harm.
Take an individual who goes out LG, with a daddy to the park (1) At night and (2) day when it is empty. 1. At night they have the darkness to conceal them and let them be free almost from the worries of being judged. 2. The day poses a larger risk but as above they have the mindset to be able to walk out that door and head to the park uncaring about being judged. If they are acting in "respectful, non- obtrusive manner" then they have the civil rights to be treated in a certain manner. They can always remove themselves from a dangerous situation by just leaving and heading somewhere else.
How do you feel, and what do you make of each situation? What "sexualities, or getting off, or "exhibitionism-ing"" do you feel is being created here fair or unfair to those role playing and to the public? How do you feel those that are into the exhibitionism factor should be treated while out, or viewed upon, by other exhibitionists and the non-exhibitionists within the community?
I agree both ways as in certain ways both parties are fair and unfair to each other. It is difficult to explain in words and will return to make more comments as well read them that replied. As far as the exhibitionists I feel that from a community wide standpoint we can't dislike them for what their thought process is because they have to rationalize their behaviors just like anyone else might have to. On the hand that many others have said up in this thread above, yes if they are not acting in a civil manner to represent to community then there is an issue there. It would be a infinity times a million blue moon you might even see diapers wide out being flaunt around like they don't care who sees, it seems like.
I feel accidental exposures are fun in their ways, but deliberate exposure is a different ballpark. I have a much more open mind that other people, but am in no way trying to disrespect anyone's feelings or thoughts in this topic.