hi,
from experience, you really need to be careful who you tell, best friends can turn out to be reall anal probes, when secrets are revealed.. I have told quite a few people, people who i believed i can trust, and out of all the people i told. only my best friend turned out to be a Pratt about it.. spreading it like wildfire between all my other friends. as you can imagine we soon stopped talking..
What was real annoying, is after this, i moved to Holland, to start a new life, and the family i moved in with, had a daughter who was dating my brother, At work one day, (i worked with the mother as well) her mother who sat next to me, said to me, "i heard something fascinating about you".. i said what.. Then she wrote the word Pampers on a piece of paper. Imagine my shock..
I have told my immediate family, and a couple of not so immediate family members, one of whom who is disabled with ms.. And was issued with tena maxi slip, they didn't work for her, Said to me one day.. can you do me a favor.. I asked her what, and she said, i have five unopened packs of tena slip in large, can you take them to the skip, Then she winked at me..
most people will be understanding, but occasionally you get the odd one who is a tit about it.. You never know who that will be.. Just be aware of that, and pick who you tell carefully.
Just my experiences
Thanks
BabyLea