I'm very new to the forum, and I'm really not sure what to do.
I don't really know how I identify myself... I like sucking on pacifiers, and I have recently worn incontinence briefs as diapers since I bought some online. I like wetting them, but I never wet them or wet in my sleep.
These feelings are definitely for comfort and for the sexual side of it.
Anyways, that's not the problem.
The only person I've confided in about this is my girlfriend. Unfortunately, she was rather repulsed by some of this. (When I told her it was really just the pacifiers, I hadn't tried the diaper stuff yet.) We talked about it (over text, not face to face) and her reaction was so negative that we really haven't talked about it since. I have told her that if she wanted to talk about any of this or had any questions that I would answer them, but she won't talk about it.
What should I do?
It's not neccesarily hurting the relationship, but I don't want to always be hiding this and being secretive towards her.
Is there another way I can approach the situation to help her see that it's not that crazy?