"Quality" can be very subjective based on your personal preferences and the reasons why you wear diapers.
Depending on the area in which you live, there can be a few decent options for store bought diapers. But for most of us, especially on the east coast of the United States, we generally flock to online suppliers for quality diapers.
Just to add perspective, the only plastic backed diapers that I can find in stores currently are the Depend protection with tabs. Where I grew up, there was a pharmacy that sold Attends.. I liked these a lot, but I personally still wouldn't place them under the "quality" category.
If you are looking for diapers to be able to truly accommodate your bathroom needs, the heavy duty European "designer" :giggles: diapers, and the others not found in stores, are the way to go. For examples, Abena, Molicare, Tena Slip Maxi, Secure X-Plus, Etc. Not to forget that most AB/DL diapers are on the same level as those as well. Keep in mind that most adult diapers sold in pharmacies and stores are catering to the caregiver demographic that is most likely buying them for a bedridden or very inactive person. Most incontinent, 24/7, or people looking to wear for more than a few hours are still very active and rarely find any satisfaction or accommodation from cheaply made, thin diapers with poor tapes are design. The other incontinence products are usually Pull-ups, which are NOT diapers and are not designed to be used as such.
If you are looking for diapers that will put you in that warm and fuzzy "baby" zone, the ABU, Bambinos, Cuddlz, Rearz, etc. are probably what you want.
But the tone of your original post is that you may not be looking for any of that, which is fine too. If you can truly fulfill your DL side with store brand diapers, than consider yourself very lucky! Your wallet will be forever grateful.
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