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Thread: Reason why I might be ABDL: I was a baby too long

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    Default Reason why I might be ABDL: I was a baby too long

    Hye guys, I have to tell you something. I have never told anyone about this because I was embarrassed, but I think I know the reasons why I am an ABDL: My parents. I... I think they are the reason I am AB, because they let me be a baby too long.

    You see, my mother had a miscarriage before I was born, so when I was born, they overprotected me... and they let me be a baby too long.

    1.- I slept in a crib until I was 6 years old.
    2.- I drank from a baby bottle at night until I was 8. Yes, I swear it's true. I couldn't sleep so my mom had to give me a strawberry milk bottle every night until I was 8 years old. Of course I drank from glassess when in the day, but that was a ritual at night.
    3.- I wet the bed until I was 9. I didn't wear diapers, but I did wet the bed ocassionally until that age.
    4.- This is the worst. Please, don't laugh. I... I didn't know how to wipe my butt until I was 12... and when I say I didn't know is not that I did poorly, I just didn't. I had a nanny that would wipe my butt at home, or my mom would. And then at school the nurse would, it was embarrassing.
    5.- I've been a thumb sucker all my life. I had a baby blanket until I was 13 and I still have my plushies.

    Do you think this are reasons I have this... ABDLism?

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    I've got pretty much the same answer for most theories: maybe. Too many people go through the same or similar things without becoming ABDL for me to believe that anything is really determinate but I'm also very inclined to think that it's our experiences that tip the balance in this. I feel like I was prone or primed for kink and if it wasn't this, it would have been something else. Other people may have a similar predisoposition to whatever degree they describe it. I just don't think that much about the cause. It's here and I'm having fun with it.

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    I agree with Trevor. If your childhood past is a contributing factor, your mind would have to been making certain connections and associations possibly to some infantile sexual response. I would be more inclined to think that such a past would create some serious psychological problems that would be outside of Infantalism, though linked in some way.

    I have found that it can be helpful and liberating to be able to talk about such things and get them out of your subconscious and into your conscious thoughts. I think it can lesson the impacts and help you adjust to things that otherwise could continue to be disturbing. This site has helped me in that way, giving me an instrument to air out my mind and get rid of some destructive clutter.

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    Thanks guys, yeah, I agree with you. However, I still ponder about such things and I... I never talked about them. I mean, it was embarrassing for me to admit that my parents babied me until such a later age.

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    I'm having a bit of a hard time believing that a school nurse would be willing to wipe the butt of an older student unless they were disabled... and that the school wouldn't take some kind of issue with that... Anyway...

    Of course it's impossible to know why exactly we are the way we are. But I'd say it's still possible your upbringing could have played some role. Sometimes I theorize that my parents' own overprotective (but not babyish) way of raising me helped form the desire within myself for a cushy, secure, baby's life. Honestly the bedwetting, thumbsucking, and baby blanket all sound pretty unremarkable - as in, other kids go through that and don't become ab/dl - but the crib and baby bottle are erring a bit on the unusual side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimbaStarshine View Post
    I'm having a bit of a hard time believing that a school nurse would be willing to wipe the butt of an older student unless they were disabled... and that the school wouldn't take some kind of issue with that... Anyway...

    Of course it's impossible to know why exactly we are the way we are. But I'd say it's still possible your upbringing could have played some role. Sometimes I theorize that my parents' own overprotective (but not babyish) way of raising me helped form the desire within myself for a cushy, secure, baby's life. Honestly the bedwetting, thumbsucking, and baby blanket all sound pretty unremarkable - as in, other kids go through that and don't become ab/dl - but the crib and baby bottle are erring a bit on the unusual side.
    Yeah, I know, but it still make me wonder. Oh and the nurse, it was just one time. I REFUSED to use the toilet in school because of the fact that I didn't know how to wipe.

    The worst thing was how they took my bottle! They told me Santa took it and from one night to the other, I was bottleless!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kik91 View Post
    Yeah, I know, but it still make me wonder. Oh and the nurse, it was just one time. I REFUSED to use the toilet in school because of the fact that I didn't know how to wipe.

    The worst thing was how they took my bottle! They told me Santa took it and from one night to the other, I was bottleless!
    My mom once told me she knew a girl who slept in a crib until she was 10. My mom's niece was the same age as the girl and she told her to tease her about it. Maybe she grew up to be ab...

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    I would say almost definitely yes.

    From what ive read, it seems at a very young age we develop these needs, fetishes etc.. Maybe through one single incident or a number of events.
    I would suggest one single incident can cause it, kind of like an error in the brain that for whatever reason makes something sexual and it doesnt seem like something you can ever get rid of.
    I would actually try hypnotherapy or anything like that to get rid of it if i had the money.

    I was spoilt somewhat. And i remember having a dummy (pacifier) bought for me when i thought i was too old.
    I asked my mum who it was for, and she said its for you.
    I was probably 3, possibly 4 but i was always smart so i remember thinking how ridiculous me having one was.
    It could have been that very moment because pacifiers was my main obsession growing up as well as other things to do with abdl.
    There was also another incident, again i think 3 years old, at playschool (pre nursery) where it was a teachers birthday, and the other teachers sang happy birthday picked her up and put her in this water tank that had things to play with in.
    That aroused me also.

    I think it is more sexual for me than a lot of people on here it seems and quite honestly it has ruined my sex life.

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    Welcome to an ages-old debate on human sexuality: Did my parents do this?

    At the very least, you can take solace in the fact that there are others who, although they did not experience exactly the same situation as yours, they can point to more than a few things that their parents did/still do that, with a bit of clarifying details, can be reasonably shown as a "good reason" why you might be an ABDL.

    Sadly, though, it's neither here nor there; doesn't change anything just because you've got someone to blame. You now enjoy being an ABDL, right?

    Just out of curiousity, how many of you are only children, or the youngest, wherein you were almost an only child?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trisy View Post
    Welcome to an ages-old debate on human sexuality: Did my parents do this?

    At the very least, you can take solace in the fact that there are others who, although they did not experience exactly the same situation as yours, they can point to more than a few things that their parents did/still do that, with a bit of clarifying details, can be reasonably shown as a "good reason" why you might be an ABDL.

    Sadly, though, it's neither here nor there; doesn't change anything just because you've got someone to blame. You now enjoy being an ABDL, right?
    Enjoy it? I love it!! I wouldn't change for anything. I love being a little boy!

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