I can't help but notice the confusion of the use of terms within this community.. like a barrier that stops one community interacting with another when actually, they are the same community! What I am talking about is the wall between ABDL and DDLG/MDLB/CGL.. Now there is a reason I am writing this.. You see, I believe that ABDL believes DDLG (I will use this gender specific term just because I am writing from my perspective..) is just sexual or a kink, however, there are MANY non sexual DDLG relationships/daddies/littles!
So I wanted to clarify how I see the terms just to ensure people don't have a fit, because there are A LOT of nonsexual DDLG littles and I feel people misunderstand, even in the ABDL community..
So the way I look at it is;
DDLG/MDLB/CGL - Littles, older than babies so lets say older than 2 and their daddy/mommy/caregiver, sure some people are sexual but some are in ABDL too! but some are asexual or not sexual within this relationship. More into toddler things than baby things.
ABDL - Babies or strictly diaper lovers, mostly younger than 2..
This is super hard to explain but that is the best I can do..
DISCLAIMER - This is only my perspective and I am not claiming that that is a correct or incorrect definition. The only reason I have written this is that I feel like I cannot use the term DDLG without it being taken the wrong way dispite this being what I identify with NOT ABDL.. Neither is wrong at all and both are perfectly "normal", however I feel like a little not a baby hence why I use this term.
Please feel free to tell me to stop my rambling, I just noticed how no one uses these terms.. To be fair, the terms over lap, but I would like to be able to use DDLG without people thinking I am sexual haha