I wet the bed until I was in my late teans and my parents were OK about this most of the time. Pooping my pants was a different matter. All kids do it at times but I was about 6 and had not done this for a while but was being looked after by my nan one day and I told her I wanted to go for a poo but she was not interested and said just do it your mum will sort it when she collects you. I went behind the couch and pooped. Mum arrived and I heard my nan lie to my mum saying I had pooped my pants and not asked to go to the toilet. I was confused. Anyway a few days later at school I did it again and I was sent to the office and my mum was called to colect me. She was really not pleased and when she got me home my pants were removed and I had to bend over while the strap was used on my bare bum. The marks lasted a week. Now I often poo myself and I always feel I have done something really bad.