My name is Dave from New York, and to put it simply, I am a bedwetter. I wear a diaper to bed every night. I do not have involuntary control on my bladder muscle, and have been that way my entire life. I can hold it when I am awake, unless I am very tired or had too much to drink, but have no control whenever I am asleep. Even if I need just a 20 minute nap I need to put on some kind of protection.
I usually wear depends of something similar when I am home in the evening just in case I am not paying attention, and will switch to something more protective when i am going down for the night.
I do not talk about this with any of my friends, I keep very private. I do not date much, if at all, because I am embarrassed by it, even though I shouldn't be, and do not put myself. or her in that position. That said, I would certainly like to chat and discuss with others who have similar issues, possibly even meet some of them.
All that is why I joined this site, but it is not who I am, or limit me from doing what i enjoy. I like many outside activities, camping, boats, snowmobiling, and being with friends. I enjoy just hanging out at home with those close to me, just wish I could find someone to share my issue with. Anyway, I hope to meet new people here and actually feel comfortable talking about it openly